كتاب النكاح
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Marriage
Bulugh al-Maram 1106
Narrated Umm 'Atiyah (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "A woman must not observe her mourning for more than three nights for the one who has died, except for the four months and ten days in the case of her husband; and she must not wear a dyed garment except one of the type made of 'Ash (dyed yarn) or apply Kuhl (antimony), or apply perfume, except for a little Qust or Azfar, when she has been purified after her menstruation." [Agreed upon. The wording being of Muslim].
وَعَنْ أُمِّ عَطِيَّةَ; أَنَّ رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ: { لَا تَحِدَّ اِمْرَأَةٌ عَلَى مَيِّتٍ فَوْقَ ثَلَاثٍ إِلَّا عَلَى زَوْجٍ أَرْبَعَةَ أَشْهُرٍ وَعَشْرًا, وَلَا تَلْبَسْ ثَوْبًا مَصْبُوغًا, إِلَّا ثَوْبَ عَصْبٍ, وَلَا تَكْتَحِلْ, وَلَا تَمَسَّ طِيبًا, إِلَّا إِذَا طَهُرَتْ نُبْذَةً مِنْ قُسْطٍ أَوْ أَظْفَارٍ.‏ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ, وَهَذَا لَفْظُ مُسْلِمٍ 1
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1106
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1106
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1117
Bulugh al-Maram 1106
Abu Dawud and an-Nasa'i have an addition:
"nor be dyed (with Henna and the like)."
وَلِأَبِي دَاوُدَ, وَالنَّسَائِيِّ مِنْ اَلزِّيَادَةِ: { وَلَا تَخْتَضِبْ } 1
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1106
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1106
Bulugh al-Maram 1106
an-Nasa'i added:
"nor comb (her hair)."
وَلِلنَّسَائِيِّ: "وَلَا تَمْتَشِطْ" 1
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1106
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1106
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