كتاب النكاح
8  
Marriage
Bulugh al-Maram 967
Narrated 'Abdullah bin Mas'ud (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to us, "O young men, those of you who can support a wife should marry, for it (marriage) controls the gaze and preserves one from immorality. And whoever cannot (marry) should fast, for it is a means of reducing the sexual desire." [Agreed upon].
عَنْ عَبْدِ اَللَّهِ بْنِ مَسْعُودٍ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ لَنَا رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ يَا مَعْشَرَ اَلشَّبَابِ ! مَنِ اسْتَطَاعَ مِنْكُمُ اَلْبَاءَةَ فَلْيَتَزَوَّجْ , فَإِنَّهُ أَغَضُّ لِلْبَصَرِ , وَأَحْصَنُ لِلْفَرْجِ , وَمَنْ لَمْ يَسْتَطِعْ فَعَلَيْهِ بِالصَّوْمِ ; فَإِنَّهُ لَهُ وِجَاءٌ".‏ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 967
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 967
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 974
Bulugh al-Maram 968
Narrated Anas bin Malik (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) praised Allah, extolled Him and said, "Yet I pray and sleep; I fast and break my fast; and I marry women. He who is displeased with my Sunnah (practices) is not my followed." [Agreed upon].
وَعَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- { أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-حَمِدَ اَللَّهَ , وَأَثْنَى عَلَيْهِ , وَقَالَ : " لَكِنِّي أَنَا أُصَلِّي وَأَنَامُ , وَأَصُومُ وَأُفْطِرُ , وَأَتَزَوَّجُ اَلنِّسَاءَ , فَمَنْ رَغِبَ عَنْ سُنَّتِي فَلَيْسَ مِنِّي } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 968
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 968
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 975
Bulugh al-Maram 969
Narrated [Anas bin Malik (RA)]:
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) used to command us to marry and sternly forbid celibacy and say, "Marry women who are beloved (due to their good characteristics), prolific in bearing children, for I shall outnumber the Prophets by you on the Day of Resurrection." [Reported by Ahmad and Ibn Hibban graded it Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنْهُ قَالَ : { كَانَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-يَأْمُرُ بِالْبَاءَةِ , وَيَنْهَى عَنِ التَّبَتُّلِ نَهْيًا شَدِيدًا , وَيَقُولُ :" تَزَوَّجُوا اَلْوَدُودَ اَلْوَلُودَ .‏ إِنِّي مُكَاثِرٌ بِكُمُ اَلْأَنْبِيَاءَ يَوْمَ اَلْقِيَامَةِ } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ , وَصَحَّحَهُ اِبْنُ حِبَّانَ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 969
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 969
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 976
Bulugh al-Maram 970
The aforesaid Hadith has a supporting narration reported by Abu Dawud. an-Nasa'i and Ibn Hibban from Ma'qal bin Yasar's Hadith.
وَلَهُ شَاهِدٌ : عِنْدَ أَبِي دَاوُدَ , وَالنَّسَائِيِّ , وَابْنِ حِبَّانَ أَيْضًا مِنْ حَدِيثِ مَعْقِلِ بْنِ يَسَارٍ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 970
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 970
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 977
Bulugh al-Maram 971
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "A woman is married for four qualities, for her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion: so get the religious one and prosper." [Agreed upon, with the rest of the as-Sab'a].
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ : { تُنْكَحُ اَلْمَرْأَةُ لِأَرْبَعٍ : لِمَالِهَا , وَلِحَسَبِهَا , وَلِجَمَالِهَا , وَلِدِينِهَا , فَاظْفَرْ بِذَاتِ اَلدِّينِ تَرِبَتْ يَدَاكَ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ مَعَ بَقِيَّةِ اَلسَّبْعَةِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 971
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 971
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 978
Bulugh al-Maram 972
Narrated [Abu Hurairah (RA)]:
When the Prophet (ﷺ) congratulated a man on his marriage he would say, "Allah bless for you (your spouse), grant you blessing, and join you together in goodness." [Reported by Ahmad and al-Arba'a. at-Tirmidhi, Ibn Khuzaimah and Ibn Hibban graded it Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنْهُ ; أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-كَانَ إِذَا رَفَّأَ إِنْسَانًا إِذَا تَزَوَّجَ قَالَ : { بَارَكَ اَللَّهُ لَكَ , وَبَارَكَ عَلَيْكَ , وَجَمَعَ بَيْنَكُمَا فِي خَيْرٍ } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ , وَالْأَرْبَعَةُ , وَصَحَّحَهُ اَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ , وَابْنُ خُزَيْمَةَ , وَابْنُ حِبَّانَ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 972
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 972
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 979
Bulugh al-Maram 973
Narrared 'Abdullah bin Mas'ud (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) taught us Tashahhud in case of some need, which is: "Praise is due to Allah, Whom we praise and from Whom we ask help and forgiveness. We seek refuge in Allah from the evils of ourselves. He whom Allah guides has no one who can lead him astray, and he whom He leads astray has no one to guide him. I testify that there is nothing deserving of worship except Allah, and I testify that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger." He (then) recites three Verses. [Reported by Ahmad and al-Arba'a. at-Tirmidhi and al-Hakim graded it Hasan (good)].
وَعَنْ عَبْدِ اَللَّهِ بْنِ مَسْعُودٍ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ : { عَلَّمَنَا رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-اَلتَّشَهُّدَ فِي اَلْحَاجَةِ : " إِنَّ اَلْحَمْدَ لِلَّهِ , نَحْمَدُهُ , وَنَسْتَعِينُهُ , وَنَسْتَغْفِرُهُ , وَنَعُوذُ بِاَللَّهِ مِنْ شُرُورِ أَنْفُسِنَا , مَنْ يَهْدِهِ اَللَّهُ فَلَا مُضِلَّ لَهُ , وَأَشْهَدُ أَنْ لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا اَللَّهُ , وَأَشْهَدُ أَنَّ مُحَمَّدًا عَبْدُهُ وَرَسُولُهُ وَيَقْرَأُ ثَلَاثَ آيَاتٍ".‏ } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ , وَالْأَرْبَعَةُ , وَحَسَّنَهُ اَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ , وَالْحَاكِمُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 973
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 973
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 980
Bulugh al-Maram 974
Narrated Jabir (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "When one of you proposes (marriage) to a woman, if he is able to look at what will induce him to marry her, he should do so." [Reported by Ahmad and Abu Dawud. Its narrators are Thiqa (reliable) and al-Hakim declared it to be Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنْ جَابِرٍ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ إِذَا خَطَبَ أَحَدُكُمُ الْمَرْأَةَ , فَإِنْ اِسْتَطَاعَ أَنْ يَنْظُرَ مِنْهَا مَا يَدْعُوهُ إِلَى نِكَاحِهَا , فَلْيَفْعَلْ } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ , وَأَبُو دَاوُدَ , وَرِجَالُهُ ثِقَاتٌ , وَصَحَّحَهُ اَلْحَاكِمُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 974
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 974
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 981
Bulugh al-Maram 975
The aforesaid Hadith has a Shahid (supporting narration) reported by at-Tirmidhi and an-Nasa'i from al-Mughirah.
وَلَهُ شَاهِدٌ : عِنْدَ اَلتِّرْمِذِيِّ , وَالنَّسَائِيِّ ; عَنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ.‏ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 975
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 975
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 982
Bulugh al-Maram 976
It also has a Shahid (supporting narration) reported by Ibn Majah and Ibn Hibban from the Hadith of Muhammad bin Maslamah.
وَعِنْدَ اِبْنِ مَاجَهْ , وَابْنِ حِبَّانَ : مِنْ حَدِيثِ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ مَسْلَمَةَ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 976
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 976
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 983
Bulugh al-Maram 977
Muslim reported from Abu Hurairah (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) asked a man who had intended to marry a woman, "Have you looked at her" He replied, "No." He said, "Go and look at her."
وَلِمُسْلِمٍ : عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- { أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ لِرَجُلٍ تَزَوَّجَ اِمْرَأَةً : أَنَظَرْتَ إِلَيْهَا ? " قَالَ : لَا .‏ قَالَ : " اِذْهَبْ فَانْظُرْ إِلَيْهَا } 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 977
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 977
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 984
Bulugh al-Maram 978
Narrated Ibn 'Umar (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "No one of you should ask a woman in marriage when his brother has done so already, until the one who has proposed (to her) before him gives her up, or gives him permission." [Agreed upon. The wording is al-Bukhari's].
وَعَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ ‏- رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا‏- قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ لَا يَخْطُبْ بَعْضُكُمْ عَلَى خِطْبَةِ أَخِيهِ , حَتَّى يَتْرُكَ اَلْخَاطِبُ قَبْلَهُ , أَوْ يَأْذَنَ لَهُ اَلْخَاطِبُ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ , وَاللَّفْظُ لِلْبُخَارِيِّ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 978
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 978
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 985
Bulugh al-Maram 979
Narrated Sahl bin Sa'd as-Sa'idi (RA):
A woman came to Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) and said, "O Allah's Messenger, I came to offer myself to you (in marriage)." Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) looked her up and down (carefully), and then Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) lowed his head. When the woman saw that he had not made any decision regarding her she sat down. A man of his companions then stood up and said, "O Allah's Messenger, if you have no need for her, marry her to me." He asked, "Do you have anything (to give her as dowry)?" He replied, "No, I swear by Allah, O Allah's Messenger." He thereupon said, "Go to your family and see if you can find something." He went and then returned and said, "No, I swear by Allah I found nothing." Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) then said, "Look for something, even if it should be an iron ring." He went and then returned and said, "No, I swear by Allah, O Allah's Messenger, not even an iron ring; but I have onl this lower garment of mine - [Sahl said, 'He had no upper garment'] - and I shall give her half of it." Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) then said, "What will she do with your lower garment? For if you wear it, there would be nothing of it on her, and if she wears it, there would be nothing of it on you." The man then sat down and when he had sit for a long time he stood up and Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) saw him departing, so he commanded him and he was called back. When he came back, he said, "What do you have (i.e. memorized) from the Qur'an?" He replied, "I have Surat such and such and Surat such and such," he counted them. He then asked "Can you recited them by heart?" He replied, "Yes." He said, "Go, for I have given her to you in marriage for the part of the Qur'an which you know." [Agreed upon; the wording is Muslim's]. Another narration has: "Go for I have given her to you in marriage, so teach her some of Qur'an." A narration by al-Bukhari has: "I have married her to you for the part of the Qur'an which you know."
وَعَنْ سَهْلِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ اَلسَّاعِدِيِّ ‏- رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا‏- قَالَ : { جَاءَتِ امْرَأَةٌ إِلَى رَسُولِ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-فَقَالَتْ : يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ ! جِئْتُ أَهَبُ لَكَ نَفْسِي , فَنَظَرَ إِلَيْهَا رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-فَصَعَّدَ اَلنَّظَرَ فِيهَا , وَصَوَّبَهُ , ثُمَّ طَأْطَأَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-رَأْسَهُ , فَلَمَّا رَأَتْ اَلْمَرْأَةُ أَنَّهُ لَمْ يَقْضِ فِيهَا شَيْئًا 1‏ جَلَسَتْ , فَقَامَ رَجُلٌ مِنْ أَصْحَابِهِ .‏
فَقَالَ : يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ ! إِنْ لَمْ يَكُنْ لَكَ بِهَا حَاجَةٌ فَزَوِّجْنِيهَا .‏
قَالَ : " فَهَلْ عِنْدكَ مِنْ شَيْءٍ ? " .‏
فَقَالَ : لَا , وَاَللَّهِ يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ .‏
فَقَالَ : " اِذْهَبْ إِلَى أَهْلِكَ , فَانْظُرْ هَلْ تَجِدُ شَيْئًا ? " فَذَهَبَ , ثُمَّ رَجَعَ ?


فَقَالَ : لَا , وَاَللَّهِ يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ، مَا وَجَدْتُ شَيْئًا.‏
فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-" انْظُرْ وَلَوْ خَاتَمًا مِنْ حَدِيدٍ "، فَذَهَبَ، ثُمَّ رَجَعَ.‏
فَقَالَ : لَا وَاَللَّهِ , يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ , وَلَا خَاتَمًا مِنْ حَدِيدٍ , وَلَكِنْ هَذَا إِزَارِي ‏- قَالَ سَهْلٌ : مَالُهُ رِدَاءٌ ‏- فَلَهَا نِصْفُهُ .‏
فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-" مَا تَصْنَعُ بِإِزَارِكَ ? إِنْ لَبِسْتَهُ لَمْ يَكُنْ عَلَيْهَا مِنْهُ شَيْءٌ، وَإِنْ لَبِسَتْهُ لَمْ يَكُنْ عَلَيْكَ شَيْءٌ " فَجَلَسَ اَلرَّجُلُ , وَحَتَّى إِذَا طَالَ مَجْلِسُهُ قَامَ ; فَرَآهُ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-مُوَلِّيًا , فَأَمَرَ بِهِ , فَدُعِيَ لَهُ , فَلَمَّا جَاءَ .‏
قَالَ : " مَاذَا مَعَكَ مِنَ الْقُرْآنِ ? " .‏
قَالَ : مَعِي سُورَةُ كَذَا , وَسُورَةُ كَذَا , عَدَّدَهَا .‏
فَقَالَ : " تَقْرَؤُهُنَّ عَنْ ظَهْرِ قَلْبِكَ ? " .‏
قَالَ : نَعَمْ , قَالَ : "اِذْهَبْ , فَقَدَ مَلَّكْتُكَهَا بِمَا مَعَكَ مِنَ الْقُرْآنِ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ , وَاللَّفْظُ لِمُسْلِمٍ 2‏ .‏
وَفِي رِوَايَةٍ لَهُ : { اِنْطَلِقْ , فَقَدْ زَوَّجْتُكَهَا , فَعَلِّمْهَا مِنَ الْقُرْآنِ } 3‏ .‏
وَفِي رِوَايَةٍ لِلْبُخَارِيِّ : { أَمْكَنَّاكَهَا 4‏ بِمَا مَعَكَ مِنَ الْقُرْآنِ } 5‏ .‏

Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 979
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 979
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 986
Bulugh al-Maram 980
Abu Dawud has a narration from Abu Hurairah (RA):
He asked, "What have you memorized?" He replied, "Surat al-Baqarah and the one that follows it." He then said. "Get up and teach her twenty Verses."
وَلِأَبِي دَاوُدَ : عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ : { مَا تَحْفَظُ ? " .‏
قَالَ : سُورَةَ اَلْبَقَرَةِ , وَاَلَّتِي تَلِيهَا .‏
قَالَ : "
قُمْ .‏ فَعَلِّمْهَا عِشْرِينَ آيَةً } 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 980
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 980
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 987
Bulugh al-Maram 981
Narrated 'Aamir bin 'Abdullah bin az-Zubair on the authority of his father:
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "Make marriage publicly known." [Reported by Ahmad and al-Hakim graded it Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنْ عَامِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اَللَّهِ بْنِ اَلزُّبَيْرِ , عَنْ أَبِيهِ ; أَنَّ رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ : { أَعْلِنُوا اَلنِّكَاحَ } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ , وَصَحَّحَهُ اَلْحَاكِمُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 981
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 981
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 988
Bulugh al-Maram 982
Narrated Abu Burda bin Abu Musa on the authority of his father; Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said:
"There is no marriage without a guardian." [Ahmad and al-Arba'a reported it. Ibn al-Madini, at-Tirmidhi and Ibn Hibban graded it Sahih (authentic), but it was regarded defective for being Mursal (missing link after the Tabi'i)].
وَعَنْ أَبِي بُرْدَةَ بْنِ أَبِي مُوسَى , عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ لَا نِكَاحَ إِلَّا بِوَلِيٍّ } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ وَالْأَرْبَعَةُ 1‏ وَصَحَّحَهُ اِبْنُ اَلْمَدِينِيِّ , وَاَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ , وَابْنُ حِبَّانَ , وَأُعِلَّ بِالْإِرْسَالِ 2‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 982
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 982
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 989
Bulugh al-Maram 983
Narrated 'Aishah (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "If anyone married without the consent of her guardian, her marriage is invalid. If there is cohabitation, she is entitled to the dowry, due to the sexual intercourse made lawful with her. If there is a dispute (between her guardian), the ruler is the guardian of one who has no guardian." [Reported by al-Arba'a except an-Nasa'i. Abu 'Awanah, Ibn Hibban and al-Hakim graded it Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ أَيُّمَا اِمْرَأَةٍ نَكَحَتْ بِغَيْرِ إِذْنِ وَلِيِّهَا, فَنِكَاحُهَا بَاطِلٌ, فَإِنْ دَخَلَ بِهَا فَلَهَا اَلْمَهْرُ بِمَا اِسْتَحَلَّ مِنْ فَرْجِهَا, فَإِنِ اشْتَجَرُوا فَالسُّلْطَانُ وَلِيُّ مَنْ لَا وَلِيَّ لَهُ } أَخْرَجَهُ اَلْأَرْبَعَةُ إِلَّا النَّسَائِيَّ, وَصَحَّحَهُ أَبُو عَوَانَةَ , وَابْنُ حِبَّانَ وَالْحَاكِمُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 983
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 983
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 990
Bulugh al-Maram 984
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "A previously married woman must not be married till she is consulted, and a virgin must not be married till her consent is asked." They asked, "O Allah's Messenger, how is her consent indicated?" He replied, "It is by her silence." [Agreed upon].
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- أَنَّ رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ : { لَا تُنْكَحُ اَلْأَيِّمُ حَتَّى تُسْتَأْمَرَ, وَلَا تُنْكَحُ اَلْبِكْرُ حَتَّى تُسْـتَأْذَنَ " قَالُوا : يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ , وَكَيْفَ إِذْنُهَا ? قَالَ : " أَنْ تَسْكُتَ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 984
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 984
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 991
Bulugh al-Maram 985
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "A woman who has been previously married has more right over her person than her guardian, and a virgin must be consulted, and her consent is silence." [Reported by Muslim].
وَعَنْ اِبْنِ عَبَّاسٍ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ { اَلثَّيِّبُ أَحَقُّ بِنَفْسِهَا مِنْ وَلِيِّهَا , وَالْبِكْرُ تُسْتَأْمَرُ , وَإِذْنُهَا سُكُوتُهَا } رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 985
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 985
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 992
Bulugh al-Maram 985
Another narration has:
"A guardian has no authority over a woman who has been previously married,; and an orphan girl must be consulted." [Reported by Abu Dawud and an-Nasa'i; Ibn Hibban graded it Sahih (authentic)].
وَفِي لَفْظٍ : { لَيْسَ لِلْوَلِيِّ مَعَ اَلثَّيِّبِ أَمْرٌ, وَالْيَتِيمَةُ تُسْتَأْمَرُ } رَوَاهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ , وَالنَّسَائِيُّ , وَصَحَّحَهُ اِبْنُ حِبَّانَ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 985
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 985
Bulugh al-Maram 986
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "A woman may not give a woman in marriage, nor may she give herself in marriage." [Reported by Ibn Majah and ad-Daraqutni. Its narrators are reliable (thiqah)].
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ لَا تُزَوِّجُ اَلْمَرْأَةُ اَلْمَرْأَةَ, وَلَا تُزَوِّجُ اَلْمَرْأَةُ نَفْسَهَا } رَوَاهُ اِبْنُ مَاجَهْ , وَاَلدَّارَقُطْنِيُّ , وَرِجَالُهُ ثِقَاتٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 986
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 986
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 993
Bulugh al-Maram 987
Narrated Nafi' from Ibn 'Umar (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) prohibited Shighar, which means that a man gives his daughter in marriage on condition that the other gives his daughter to him in marriage [in exchange] without any dowry being paid by either. [Agreed upon].
وَعَنْ نَافِعٍ , عَنْ اِبْنِ عُمَرَ قَالَ : { نَهَى رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-عَنِ الشِّغَارِ ; وَالشِّغَارُ: أَنْ يُزَوِّجَ اَلرَّجُلُ اِبْنَتَهُ عَلَى أَنْ يُزَوِّجَهُ اَلْآخَرُ اِبْنَتَهُ , وَلَيْسَ بَيْنَهُمَا صَدَاقٌ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 987
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 987
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 994
Bulugh al-Maram 987
And they both agreed that the explanation of the meaning of Shighar is the saying of Nafi'.
وَاتَّفَقَا مِنْ وَجْهٍ آخَرَ عَلَى أَنَّ تَفْسِيرَ اَلشِّغَارِ مِنْ كَلَامِ نَافِعٍ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 987
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 987
Bulugh al-Maram 988
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas (RA):
A virgin girl came to the Prophet (ﷺ) and mentioned that her father had married her against her will, so Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) allowed her to exercise her choice. [Reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawud and Ibn Majah. If it is considered defective for being Mursal (missing link in the chain after the Tabi'i)].
وَعَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ ‏- رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا‏- { أَنَّ جَارِيَةً بِكْرًا أَتَتِ النَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-فَذَكَرَتْ: أَنَّ أَبَاهَا زَوَّجَهَا وَهِيَ كَارِهَةٌ , فَخَيَّرَهَا اَلنَّبِيُّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-} رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ , وَأَبُو دَاوُدَ , وَابْنُ مَاجَهْ , وَأُعِلَّ بِالْإِرْسَالِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 988
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 988
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 995
Bulugh al-Maram 989
Narrated al-Hasan from Samurah (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "If two guardians have given a woman in marriage, she marries the man she was first married to." [Reported by Ahmad and al-Arba'a. at-Tirmidhi graded it Hasan (good)].
وَعَنْ اَلْحَسَنِ , عَنْ سَمُرَةَ , عَنِ اَلنَّبِيِّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ : { أَيُّمَا اِمْرَأَةٍ زَوَّجَهَا وَلِيَّانِ , فَهِيَ لِلْأَوَّلِ مِنْهُمَا } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ , وَالْأَرْبَعَةُ , وَحَسَّنَهُ اَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 989
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 989
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 996
Bulugh al-Maram 990
Narrated Jabir (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "Any slave who marries without the permission of his masters or owners is (like) a fornicator." [Reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawud, an-Nasa'i and at-Tirmidhi; the latter graded it Sahih (authentic), as did Ibn Hibban].
وَعَنْ جَابِرٍ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ أَيُّمَا عَبْدٍ تَزَوَّجَ بِغَيْرِ إِذْنِ مَوَالِيهِ أَوْ أَهْلِهِ , فَهُوَ عَاهِرٌ } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ , وَأَبُو دَاوُدَ , وَاَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ وَصَحَّحَهُ , وَكَذَلِكَ اِبْنُ حِبَّانَ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 990
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 990
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 997
Bulugh al-Maram 991
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "A man must not join together (in marriage to him) a woman and her paternal aunt or a woman and her maternal aunt." [Agreed upon].
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ : { لَا يُجْمَعُ بَيْنَ اَلْمَرْأَةِ وَعَمَّتِهَا , وَلَا بَيْنَ اَلْمَرْأَةِ وَخَالَتِهَا } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 991
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 991
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 998
Bulugh al-Maram 992
Narrated 'Uthman (RA):
Allah's Messneger (ﷺ) said: "One who is in Ihram may not marry, or be given in marriage." [Reported by Muslim]. In another narration by him it says: "He should not ask someone's hand in marriage."
وَعَنْ عُثْمَانَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ لَا يَنْكِحُ اَلْمُحْرِمُ , وَلَا يُنْكَحُ } رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ .‏ وَفِي رِوَايَةٍ لَهُ : { وَلَا يَخْطُبُ } 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 992
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 992
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 999
Bulugh al-Maram 992
Ibn Hibban added:
"nor give someone in engagement (to be married)."
وَزَادَ اِبْنُ حِبَّانَ : { وَلَا يُخْطَبُ عَلَيْهِ } 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 992
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 992
Bulugh al-Maram 993
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) married Maimunah (RA) when he was in the state of Ihram (during pilgrimage). [Agreed upon].
وَعَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ ‏-رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا‏- قَالَ : { تَزَوَّجَ اَلنَّبِيُّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-مَيْمُونَةَ وَهُوَ مُحْرِمٌ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 993
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 993
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1000
Bulugh al-Maram 994
Muslim reported from Maimunah (RA) herself:
"The Prophet (ﷺ) married her when he was not in the state of Ihram."
وَلِمُسْلِمٍ : عَنْ مَيْمُونَةَ نَفْسِهَا { أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-تَزَوَّجَهَا وَهُوَ حَلَالٌ } 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 994
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 994
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1001
Bulugh al-Maram 995
Narrated 'Uqbah bin 'Aamir (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "The most worthy conditions to be fulfilled are those by which you make sexual intercourse lawful for yourselves (in marriage)." [Agreed upon].
وَعَنْ عُقْبَةَ بْنِ عَامِرٍ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ إِنَّ أَحَقَّ اَلشُّرُوطِ أَنْ يُوَفَّى بِهِ , مَا اِسْتَحْلَلْتُمْ بِهِ اَلْفُرُوجَ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 995
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 995
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1002
Bulugh al-Maram 996
Narrated Salamah bin al-Akwa' (RA):
In the year of Autas, Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) permitted Mut'a (temporary marriage) for three nights, then he prohibited (afterwards). [Reported by Muslim].
وَعَنْ سَلَمَةَ بْنِ الْأَكْوَعِ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ : { رَخَّصَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-عَامَ أَوْطَاسٍ فِي اَلْمُتْعَةِ , ثَلَاثَةَ أَيَّامٍ , ثُمَّ نَهَى عَنْهَا } رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 996
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 996
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1003
Bulugh al-Maram 997
Narrated 'Ali (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) forbade Mut'a (temporary marriage) in the year of Khaibar. [Agreed upon].
وَعَنْ عَلَيٍّ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ : { نَهَى رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-عَنْ اَلْمُتْعَةِ عَامَ خَيْبَرَ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 997
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 997
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1004
Bulugh al-Maram 998
Narrated Ibn Mas'ud (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) cursed the man who made a woman lawful for her first husband and the one for whom she was made lawful (the men involved in Halalah). [Reported by Ahmad, an-Nasa'i and at-Tirmidhi; the latter declared it to be Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنِ ابْنِ مَسْعُودٍ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ : { لَعَنَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-اَلْمُحَلِّلَ وَالْمُحَلَّلَ لَهُ } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ , وَالنَّسَائِيُّ , وَاَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ وَصَحَّحَهُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 998
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 998
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1005
Bulugh al-Maram 999
al-Arba'a except an-Nasa'i reported something related to this matter, on the authority of 'Ali (RA).
وَفِي اَلْبَابِ : عَنْ عَلِيٍّ أَخْرَجَهُ اَلْأَرْبَعَةُ إِلَّا النَّسَائِيَّ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 999
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 999
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1006
Bulugh al-Maram 1000
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "A man guilty of fornication, who has been flogged (for it), should not marry any but a woman like him (similarly guilty)." [Reported by Ahmad and Abu Dawud, and its narrators are reliable (thiqah)].
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ لَا يَنْكِحُ اَلزَّانِي اَلْمَجْلُودُ إِلَّا مِثْلَهُ } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ , وَأَبُو دَاوُدَ , وَرِجَالُهُ ثِقَاتٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1000
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1000
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1007
Bulugh al-Maram 1001
Narrated 'Aishah (RA):
A man divorced his wife by three pronouncements and another man married her and divorced her before cohabiting with her. Then, her first husband intended to remarry her and asked Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) about that. He said, "No, until the other one (second husband) has enjoyed sexual intercourse with her as the first (husband) had." [Agreed upon; the wording is Muslim's].
وَعَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهَا , قَالَتْ : { طَلَّقَ رَجُلٌ اِمْرَأَتَهُ ثَلَاثًا , فَتَزَوَّجَهَا رَجُلٌ , ثُمَّ طَلَّقَهَا قَبْلَ أَنْ يَدْخُلَ بِهَا , فَأَرَادَ زَوْجُهَا أَنْ يَتَزَوَّجَهَا , فَسُئِلَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-عَنْ ذَلِكَ , فَقَالَ : "لَا .‏ حَتَّى يَذُوقَ اَلْآخَرُ مِنْ عُسَيْلَتِهَا مَا ذَاقَ اَلْأَوَّلُ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ , وَاللَّفْظُ لِمُسْلِمٍ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1001
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1001
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1008
Bulugh al-Maram 1002
Narrated Ibn 'Umar (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "The Arabs are equal to one another and the Mawali (Non-Arabs, and originally former slaves) are equal to one another, except a weaver or a cupper." [Reported by al-Hakim, but there is a nameless narrator in its chain of narration; Abu Hatim graded it Munkar (rejected)].
وَعَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ ‏- رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا‏- قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ اَلْعَرَبُ بَعْضُهُمْ أَكْفَاءُ بَعْضٍ , وَالْمَوَالِي بَعْضُهُمْ أَكْفَاءُ بَعْضٍ , إِلَّا حَائِكٌ أَوْ حَجَّامٌ } رَوَاهُ اَلْحَاكِمُ , وَفِي إِسْنَادِهِ رَاوٍ لَمْ يُسَمَّ , وَاسْتَنْكَرَهُ أَبُو حَاتِمٍ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1002
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1002
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1009
Bulugh al-Maram 1003
It has a supporting narration reported by al-Bazzar from Mu'adh bin Jabal with a Munqati' (broken) chain.
وَلَهُ شَاهِدٌ عِنْدَ اَلْبَزَّارِ : عَنْ مُعَاذِ بْنِ جَبَلٍ بِسَنَدٍ مُنْقَطِعٍ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1003
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1003
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1010
Bulugh al-Maram 1004
Narrated Fatimah (RA), the daughter of Qais:
The Prophet (ﷺ) told her, "Marry Usamah." [Reported by Muslim].
وَعَنْ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتِ قَيْسٍ ; أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ لَهَا : { اِنْكِحِي أُسَامَةَ } رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1004
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1004
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1011
Bulugh al-Maram 1005
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "O Sons of Bayada', marry to Abu Hind (someone of your women) and marry from his women (i.e. his daughters), (even though) he was a cupper. [Abu Dawud and al-Hakim reported it with a Jayyid (good) chain of narrators].
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ : { يَا بَنِي بَيَاضَةَ , أَنْكِحُوا أَبَا هِنْدٍ , وَانْكِحُوا إِلَيْهِ" وَكَانَ حَجَّامًا } رَوَاهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ , وَالْحَاكِمُ بِسَنَدٍ جَيِّدٍ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1005
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1005
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1012
Bulugh al-Maram 1006
Narrated 'Aishah (RA):
Barirah was given her choice regarding her husband (to remain with him or separate) when she was freed. [Agreed upon; it is a part of a long Hadith].
وَعَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ : { خُيِّرَتْ بَرِيرَةُ عَلَى زَوْجِهَا حِينَ عَتَقَتْ } .‏ مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ فِي حَدِيثٍ طَوِيلٍ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1006
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1006
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1013
Bulugh al-Maram 1006
Muslim has from 'Aishah (RA):
"Her husband was a slave."
وَلِمُسْلِمٍ عَنْهَا : { أَنَّ زَوْجَهَا كَانَ عَبْدًا } 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1006
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1006
Bulugh al-Maram 1006
Another narration from her has:
"He was a free man." The first (narration) is more well established.
وَفِي رِوَايَةٍ عَنْهَا : { كَانَ حُرًّا } .‏ وَالْأَوَّلُ أَثْبَتُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1006
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1006
Bulugh al-Maram 1006
It has been authentically reported from Ibn 'Abbas (RA) by al-Bukhari:
"...that he was a slave".
وَصَحَّ عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ عِنْدَ اَلْبُخَارِيِّ ; أَنَّهُ كَانَ عَبْدًا 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1006
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1006
Bulugh al-Maram 1007
Narrated ad-Dahhak bin Fairuz ad-Dailami on the authority on the authority of his father (RA):
I said, "O Allah's Messenger, I have accepted Islam and I am married to two sisters." Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)then said, "Divorce whichever of them you wish." [Reported by Ahmad and al-Arba'a, except an-Nasa'i. Ibn Hibban, ad-Daraqutni and al-Baihaqi graded it Sahih (authentic) but al-Bukhari considered it defective].
وَعَنِ اَلضَّحَّاكِ بْنِ فَيْرُوزَ الدَّيْلَمِيِّ , عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ : { قُلْتُ : يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ ! إِنِّي أَسْلَمْتُ وَتَحْتِي أُخْتَانِ , فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-" طَلِّقْ أَيَّتَهُمَا شِئْتَ } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ , وَالْأَرْبَعَةُ إِلَّا النَّسَائِيَّ , وَصَحَّحَهُ اِبْنُ حِبَّانَ , وَاَلدَّارَقُطْنِيُّ , وَالْبَيْهَقِيُّ , وَأَعَلَّهُ اَلْبُخَارِيُّ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1007
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1007
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1014
Bulugh al-Maram 1008
Narrated Salim on the authority if his father:
Ghailan bin Salamah accepted Islam and he had ten wives who accepted Islam along with him. So, the Prophet (ﷺ) commanded him to, "Choose four of them." [Reported by Ahmad and at-Tirmidhi. Ibn Hibban and al-Hakim graded it Sahih (authentic); but al-Bukhari, Abu Zur'ah and Abu Hatim considered it defective].
وَعَنْ سَالِمٍ , عَنْ أَبِيهِ , { أَنَّ غَيْلَانَ بْنَ سَلَمَةَ أَسْلَمَ وَلَهُ عَشْرُ نِسْوَةٍ , فَأَسْلَمْنَ مَعَهُ , فَأَمَرَهُ اَلنَّبِيُّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-أَنْ يَتَخَيَّرَ مِنْهُنَّ أَرْبَعًا } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ , وَاَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ , وَصَحَّحَهُ اِبْنُ حِبَّانَ , وَالْحَاكِمُ ، وَأَعَلَّهُ اَلْبُخَارِيُّ , وَأَبُو زُرْعَةَ , وَأَبُو حَاتِمٍ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1008
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1008
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1015
Bulugh al-Maram 1009
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) returned his daughter Zainab (RA) to [her husband] Abul-'Aas bin ar-Rabi' (RA) based upon the first marriage, after six years (of separation), and he did not perform a new marriage. [Reported by Ahmad and al-Arba'a except an-Nasa'i. Ahmad and al-Hakim graded it Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ ‏- رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا‏- قَالَ : { رَدَّ اَلنَّبِيُّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-اِبْنَتَهُ زَيْنَبَ عَلَى أَبِي الْعَاصِ بْنِ اَلرَّبِيعِ , بَعْدَ سِتِّ سِنِينَ بِالنِّكَاحِ اَلْأَوَّلِ , وَلَمْ يُحْدِثْ نِكَاحًا } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ , وَالْأَرْبَعَةُ 1‏ إِلَّا النَّسَائِيَّ , وَصَحَّحَهُ أَحْمَدُ , وَالْحَاكِمُ 2‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1009
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1009
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1016
Bulugh al-Maram 1010
Narrated 'Amr bin Shu'aib on his father's authority from his grandfather:
The Prophet (ﷺ) returned his daughter Zainab (RA) to [her husband] Abul-'Aas (RA) by a new marriage. [at-Tirmidhi said, "The Hadith of Ibn 'Abbas (RA) is better than 'Amr's Hadith in consideration of the chains of narrators. However, that which is being observed in practice is 'Amr bin Shu'aib's Hadith"].
وَعَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ شُعَيْبٍ , عَنْ أَبِيهِ , عَنْ جَدِّهِ { أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-رَدَّ اِبْنَتَهُ زَيْنَبَ عَلَى أَبِي الْعَاصِ بِنِكَاحٍ جَدِيدٍ } قَالَ اَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ : حَدِيثُ اِبْنِ عَبَّاسٍ أَجْوَدُ إِسْنَادًا , وَالْعَمَلُ عَلَى حَدِيثِ عَمْرِو بْنِ شُعَيْبٍ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1010
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1010
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1017
Bulugh al-Maram 1011
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas (RA):
A woman had accepted Islam and then re-married, so her (previous) husband came and said, "O Allah's Messenger, I had accepted Islam and she knew that I had done so." So Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) took her away from her second husband and returned her to her first one. [Reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawud and Ibn Majah. Ibn Hibban and al-Hakim graded it Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ ‏- رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا‏- قَالَ : { أَسْلَمَتْ اِمْرَأَةٌ , فَتَزَوَّجَتْ , فَجَاءَ زَوْجُهَا , فَقَالَ : يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ ! إِنِّي كُنْتُ أَسْلَمْتُ , وَعَلِمَتْ بِإِسْلَامِي , فَانْتَزَعَهَا رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-مِنْ زَوْجِهَا اَلْآخَرِ , وَرَدَّهَا إِلَى زَوْجِهَا اَلْأَوَّلِ } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ , وَأَبُو دَاوُدَ , وَابْنُ مَاجَهْ .‏ وَصَحَّحَهُ اِبْنُ حِبَّانَ , وَالْحَاكِمُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1011
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1011
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1018
Bulugh al-Maram 1012
Narrated Zaid bin Ka'b bin 'Ujrah (RA) on his father's authority:
'Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) married al-'Aaliyah of Banu Ghifar. When she entered in his presence and he removed her clothes, he saw whiteness (of leprosy) around her waist area and the Prophet (ﷺ) said: "Put on your clothes and return to your family." He ordered her dowry to be given to her. [Reported by al-Hakim]. In its chain of narrators, is Jamil bin Zaid, who is Majhul (an unaccredited narrator). There is also a great difference of opinion as to who was his Shaykh.
وَعَنْ زَيْدِ بْنِ كَعْبِ بْنِ عُجْرَةَ , عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ : { تَزَوَّجَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-اَلْعَالِيَةَ مِنْ بَنِي غِفَارٍ , فَلَمَّا دَخَلَتْ عَلَيْهِ وَوَضَعَتْ ثِيَابَهَا , رَأَى بِكَشْحِهَا بَيَاضًا فَقَالَ : " اِلْبَسِي ثِيَابَكِ , وَالْحَقِي بِأَهْلِكِ " , وَأَمَرَ لَهَا بِالصَّدَاقِ } رَوَاهُ اَلْحَاكِمُ , وَفِي إِسْنَادِهِ جَمِيلُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ وَهُوَ مَجْهُولٌ , وَاخْتُلِفَ عَلَيْهِ فِي شَيْخِهِ اِخْتِلَافًا كَثِيرًا 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1012
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1012
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1019
Bulugh al-Maram 1012
Narrated Sa'id bin al-Musaiyab:
'Umar bin al-Khattab (RA) said: "If any man married a woman and after sleeping with her finds that she is affected with leprosy or insane, she gets her dowry (if he divorces her) for having intercourse with her, and it is returned to him from the one who has deceived him with her." [Sa'id bin Mansur, Malik and Ibn Abu Shaibah reported it. It's narrated are reliable (thiqah)].
وَعَنْ سَعِيدِ بْنِ اَلْمُسَيَّبِ ; أَنَّ عُمَرَ بْنَ اَلْخَطَّابِ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ : { أَيُّمَا رَجُلٍ تَزَوَّجَ اِمْرَأَةً , فَدَخَلَ بِهَا , فَوَجَدَهَا بَرْصَاءَ , أَوْ مَجْنُونَةً , أَوْ مَجْذُومَةً , فَلَهَا اَلصَّدَاقُ بِمَسِيسِهِ إِيَّاهَا , وَهُوَ لَهُ عَلَى مَنْ غَرَّهُ مِنْهَا } أَخْرَجَهُ سَعِيدُ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ , وَمَالِكٌ , وَابْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ , وَرِجَالُهُ ثِقَاتٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1012
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1012
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1020
Bulugh al-Maram 1012
Sa'id (bin Mansur) also reported something similar from 'Ali (RA) and added:
"And (if) she has something like a horn (Qarn) (coming out of her vagina), her husband then has the right to divorce her or keep her. And if he had intercourse with her, she gets her dowry for the intercourse her husband has had."
وَرَوَى سَعِيدٌ أَيْضًا : عَنْ عَلِيٍّ نَحْوَهُ , وَزَادَ : { وَبِهَا قَرَنٌ , فَزَوْجُهَا بِالْخِيَارِ , فَإِنْ مَسَّهَا فَلَهَا اَلْمَهْرُ بِمَا اِسْتَحَلَّ مِنْ فَرْجِهَا 1‏ } .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1012
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1012
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1021
Bulugh al-Maram 1012
Narrated Sa'id bin al-Musaiyab this Hadith also:
'Umar (RA) gave a decree regarding a husband who is impotent that he must be given delay for one year. [Its narrators are reliable].
وَمِنْ طَرِيقِ سَعِيدِ بْنِ اَلْمُسَيَّبِ أَيْضًا قَالَ : { قَضَى [بِهِ] عُمَرُ فِي اَلْعِنِّينِ , أَنْ يُؤَجَّلَ سَنَةً، وَرِجَالُهُ ثِقَاتٌ 1‏ } .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1012
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1012
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1022
Bulugh al-Maram 1013
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "He who has intercourse with a woman through her anus is accursed." [Abu Dawud and an-Nasa'i reported it and the wording is his (an-Nasa'i). Its narrators are reliable, but it was considered to be defective for being Mursal (a missing link after the Tabi'i)].
عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ مَلْعُونٌ مَنْ أَتَى اِمْرَأَةً فِي دُبُرِهَا } رَوَاهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ , وَالنَّسَائِيُّ وَاللَّفْظُ لَهُ , وَرِجَالُهُ ثِقَاتٌ , وَلَكِنْ أُعِلَّ بِالْإِرْسَالِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1013
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1013
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1023
Bulugh al-Maram 1014
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "Allah will not look at a man who has intercourse with a man or a woman through the anus." [Reported by at-Tirmidhi, an-Nasa'i and Ibn Hibban, but it was considered to be defective for being Mawquf (saying of a Companion, i.e. Ibn 'Abbas)].
وَعَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ ‏- رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا‏- قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ لَا يَنْظُرُ اَللَّهُ إِلَى رَجُلٍ أَتَى رَجُلاً أَوْ اِمْرَأَةً فِي دُبُرِهَا } رَوَاهُ اَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ , وَالنَّسَائِيُّ , وَابْنُ حِبَّانَ , وَأُعِلَّ بِالْوَقْفِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1014
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1014
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1024
Bulugh al-Maram 1015
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "He who believes in Allah and the last Day should not harm his neighbor; and take my advice regarding good treatment of women, for they were created from a rib. And indeed the most crooked part of the rib is its upper part. If you attempt to straighten it, you will break it, and if you leave it alone it will remain crooked. So, take my advice regarding good treatment of women." [Agreed upon; the wording is al-Bukhari's].
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- عَنِ اَلنَّبِيِّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ : { مَنْ كَانَ يُؤْمِنُ بِاَللَّهِ وَالْيَوْمِ اَلْآخِرِ فَلَا يُؤْذِي جَارَهُ , وَاسْتَوْصُوا بِالنِّسَاءِ خَيْرًا , فَإِنَّهُنَّ خُلِقْنَ مِنْ ضِلَعٍ , وَإِنَّ أَعْوَجَ شَيْءٍ فِي اَلضِّلَعِ أَعْلَاهُ , فَإِنْ ذَهَبْتَ تُقِيمَهُ كَسَرْتَهُ , وَإِنْ تَرَكْتَهُ لَمْ يَزَلْ أَعْوَجَ , فَاسْتَوْصُوا بِالنِّسَاءِ خَيْرًا } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ , وَاللَّفْظُ لِلْبُخَارِيِّ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1015
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1015
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1025
Bulugh al-Maram 1015
Muslim has:
"So if you enjoy her you will do so while crookedness remains in her; but if you attempt to straighten her you will break her, and breaking her is divorcing her."
وَلِمُسْلِمٍ : { فَإِنْ اِسْتَمْتَعْتَ بِهَا اِسْتَمْتَعْتَ وَبِهَا عِوَجٌ , وَإِنْ ذَهَبْتَ تُقِيمُهَا كَسَرْتَهَا , وَكَسْرُهَا طَلَاقُهَا } 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1015
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1015
Bulugh al-Maram 1016
Narrated Jabir (RA):
We were with the Prophet (ﷺ) on an expedition. Then, when we arrived at al-Madinah and were about to enter he said, "Wait so that you may enter by night - i.e. in the evening in order that the woman with disheveled hair may comb it and the woman whose husband has been away may shave her pubic hairs (getting ready for her husband)." [Agreed upon].
وَعَنْ جَابِرٍ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ : { كُنَّا مَعَ رَسُولِ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-فِي غَزَاةٍ , فَلَمَّا قَدِمْنَا اَلْمَدِينَةَ , ذَهَبْنَا لِنَدْخُلَ .‏ فَقَالَ : " أَمْهِلُوا حَتَّى تَدْخُلُوا لَيْلًا ‏- يَعْنِي : عِشَاءً ‏- لِكَيْ تَمْتَشِطَ اَلشَّعِثَةُ , وَتَسْتَحِدَّ اَلْمَغِيبَةُ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1016
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1016
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1026
Bulugh al-Maram 1016
A narration by al-Bukhari has:
"When one of you has been away from home for a long time, he must not come to his family during the night."
وَفِي رِوَايَةٍ لِلْبُخَارِيِّ : { إِذَا أَطَالَ 1‏ أَحَدُكُمُ الْغَيْبَةَ , فَلَا يَطْرُقْ أَهْلَهُ لَيْلاً } 2‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1016
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1016
Bulugh al-Maram 1017
Narrated Abu Sa'id al-Khudri (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "The worst of people in position before Allah on the Day of Resurrection is the man who has intercourse with his wife, and she with him, and then spreads her secrets." [Reported by Muslim].
وَعَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ اَلْخُدْرِيِّ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ إِنَّ شَرَّ اَلنَّاسِ مَنْزِلَةً عِنْدَ اَللَّهِ يَوْمَ اَلْقِيَامَةِ ; اَلرَّجُلُ يُفْضِي إِلَى اِمْرَأَتِهِ وَتُفْضِي إِلَيْهِ , ثُمَّ يَنْشُرُ سِرَّهَا } أَخْرَجَهُ مُسْلِمٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1017
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1017
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1027
Bulugh al-Maram 1018
Narrated Hakim bin Mu'awiyah on the authority of his father (RA):
I asked, "O Messenger of Allah, what are the rights of a wife of one of us on her husband?" He replied, "You should give her food when you eat, clothe her when you clothe yourself, not strike her on the face, and do not revile her or desert her except within the house." [Reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawud, an-Nasa'i and Ibn Majah, al-Bukhari mentioned part of it [the last sentence] as Mu'allaq (a broken chain from the side of the collector, i.e. al-Bukhari), Ibn Hibban and al-Hakim graded it Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنْ حَكِيمِ بْنِ مُعَاوِيَةَ , عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ : { قُلْتُ : يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ ! مَا حَقُّ زَوْجِ أَحَدِنَا عَلَيْهِ ? قَالَ : " تُطْعِمُهَا إِذَا أَكَلْتَ , وَتَكْسُوهَا إِذَا اِكْتَسَيْتَ , وَلَا تَضْرِبِ الْوَجْهَ , وَلَا تُقَبِّحْ , وَلَا تَهْجُرْ إِلَّا فِي اَلْبَيْتِ } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ , وَأَبُو دَاوُدَ , وَالنَّسَائِيُّ , وَابْنُ مَاجَهْ، وَعَلَّقَ اَلْبُخَارِيُّ بَعْضَهُ، وَصَحَّحَهُ اِبْنُ حِبَّانَ , وَالْحَاكِمُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1018
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1018
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1028
Bulugh al-Maram 1019
Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah (RA):
The Jews used to say, "When a man has intercourse with his wife through the vagina, but from her back side, the child will be squint-eyed." Then, the Verse came down: "Your wives are a tilth to you, so come to your tilth however you wish [2:223]." [Agreed upon; the wording is Muslim's].
وَعَنْ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اَللَّهِ ‏- رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا‏- قَالَ : { كَانَتِ الْيَهُودُ تَقُولُ : إِذَا أَتَى اَلرَّجُلُ اِمْرَأَتَهُ مِنْ دُبُرِهَا فِي قُبُلِهَا , كَانَ اَلْوَلَدُ أَحْوَلَ .‏ فَنَزَلَتْ : "نِسَاؤُكُمْ حَرْثٌ لَكُمْ فَأْتُوْا حَرْثَكُمْ أَنَّى شِئْتُمْ" [اَلْبَقَرَة : 223] } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ , وَاللَّفْظُ لِمُسْلِمٍ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1019
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1019
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1029
Bulugh al-Maram 1020
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "If anyone who intends to have intercourse with his wife says, 'In the Name of Allah. O Allah, keep us away from the devil and keep the devil away from what You have provided us (of children)', should it be ordained that a child be born to them thereby, Satan will never harm it." [Agreed upon].
وَعَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ ‏- رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا‏- قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ لَوْ أَنَّ أَحَدَكُمْ 1‏ إِذَا أَرَادَ أَنْ يَأْتِيَ أَهْلَهُ قَالَ : بِسْمِ اَللَّهِ .‏ اَللَّهُمَّ جَنِّبْنَا اَلشَّيْطَانَ وَجَنِّبِ الشَّيْطَانَ مَا رَزَقْتَنَا ; فَإِنَّهُ إِنْ يُقَدَّرْ بَيْنَهُمَا وَلَدٌ فِي ذَلِكَ , لَمْ يَضُرَّهُ اَلشَّيْطَانُ أَبَدًا".‏ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ 2‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1020
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1020
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1030
Bulugh al-Maram 1021
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "When a man calls his wife to come to his bed (for marital relations), and she refuses to come, and he spends the night in anger, the angels curse her till the morning." [Agreed upon; the wording is al-Bukhari's].
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ : { إِذَا دَعَا اَلرَّجُلُ اِمْرَأَتَهُ إِلَى فِرَاشِهِ فَأَبَتْ أَنْ تَجِيءَ , لَعَنَتْهَا اَلْمَلَائِكَةُ حَتَّى تُصْبِحَ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ , وَاللَّفْظُ لِلْبُخَارِيِّ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1021
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1021
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1031
Bulugh al-Maram 1021
Muslim has:
"He Who is in heaven is displeased with her till her husband is pleased with her."
وَلِمُسْلِمٍ : { كَانَ اَلَّذِي فِي اَلسَّمَاءِ سَاخِطًا عَلَيْهَا حَتَّى يَرْضَى عَنْهَا } 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1021
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1021
Bulugh al-Maram 1022
Narrated Ibn 'Umar (RA):
"The Prophet (ﷺ) cursed the woman who joins false hair to her real hair [extensions] and the one who asks for it to be done to her; and the woman who tattoos (others) and the one who has it done (for her). [Agreed upon].
وَعَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ ‏- رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا‏- { أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-لَعَنَ اَلْوَاصِلَةَ وَالْمُسْتَوْصِلَةَ , وَالْوَاشِمَةَ وَالْمُسْتَوْشِمَةَ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1022
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1022
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1032
Bulugh al-Maram 1023
Narrated Judamah (RA) daughter of Wahb:
I was with Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) along with some people when he was saying, "I have intended to prohibit Ghila (sexual intercourse with a woman who is breast-feeding), but I considered the Romans and the Persians and saw that they engaged in Ghila without any injury being caused to their children thereby." Then they asked him about 'Azl (withdrawing the penis before emission of semen, to avoid conception), and Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) replied, "That is the secret (way of) burying alive." [Reported by Muslim]
وَعَنْ جُذَامَةَ بِنْتِ وَهْبٍ ‏-رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهَا‏- قَالَتْ : { حَضَرْتُ رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-فِي أُنَاسٍ , وَهُوَ يَقُولُ : لَقَدْ هَمَمْتُ أَنْ أَنْهَى عَنِ الْغِيلَةِ , فَنَظَرْتُ فِي اَلرُّومِ وَفَارِسَ , فَإِذَا هُمْ يُغِيلُونَ أَوْلَادَهُمْ فَلَا يَضُرُّ ذَلِكَ أَوْلَادَهُمْ شَيْئًا " .‏
ثُمَّ سَأَلُوهُ عَنِ الْعَزْلِ ? فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-"
ذَلِكَ اَلْوَأْدُ اَلْخَفِيُّ } رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1023
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1023
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1033
Bulugh al-Maram 1024
Narrated Abu Sa'id al-Khudri (RA):
A man said, "O Allah's Messenger, I have a slave-girl and I withdraw the penis while having intercourse with her ('Azl). I dislike that she become pregnant, but I want (from her) what a man wants (from a woman). And the Jews say - withdrawing the penis to avoid conception is the minor (form of) burying alive." He replied, "The Jews told a lie, for if Allah intended to create it you would not be able to turn it away." [Reported by Ahmad and Abu Dawud, the wording is Abu Dawud's. an-Nasa'i and at-Tahawi also reported it. Its narrators are reliable].
وَعَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ اَلْخُدْرِيِّ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- { أَنَّ رَجُلاً قَالَ : يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ ! إِنَّ لِي جَارِيَةً , وَأَنَا أَعْزِلُ عَنْهَا , وَأَنَا أَكْرَهُ أَنْ تَحْمِلَ , وَأَنَا أُرِيدُ مَا يُرِيدُ اَلرِّجَالُ , وَإِنَّ اَلْيَهُودَ تُحَدِّثُ: أَنَّ اَلْعَزْلَ المَوْؤُدَةُ اَلصُّغْرَى .‏ قَالَ : " كَذَبَتْ يَهُودُ , لَوْ أَرَادَ اَللَّهُ أَنْ يَخْلُقَهُ مَا اِسْتَطَعْتَ أَنْ تَصْرِفَهُ } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ , وَأَبُو دَاوُدَ وَاللَّفْظُ لَهُ , وَالنَّسَائِيُّ , وَاَلطَّحَاوِيُّ , وَرِجَالُهُ ثِقَاتٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1024
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1024
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1034
Bulugh al-Maram 1025
Narrated Jabir (RA):
In the lifetime of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) when the Qur'an was being revealed, we used to engage in 'Azl. Hence, if it had been something forbidden, the Qur'an would have forbade us from doing it. [Agreed upon].
وَعَنْ جَابِرٍ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ : { كُنَّا نَعْزِلُ عَلَى عَهْدِ رَسُولِ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-وَالْقُرْآنُ يَنْزِلُ , وَلَوْ كَانَ شَيْئًا يُنْهَى عَنْهُ لَنَهَانَا عَنْهُ اَلْقُرْآنُ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1025
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1025
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1035
Bulugh al-Maram 1025
And Muslim has:
"That (which we were doing) reached the Prophet (ﷺ) and he did not forbid us from doing it."
وَلِمُسْلِمٍ : { فَبَلَغَ ذَلِكَ نَبِيَّ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-فَلَمْ يَنْهَنَا } 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1025
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1025
Bulugh al-Maram 1026
Narrated Anas bin Malik (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) used to have intercourse with his wives (one after another), with a single bathing. [Agreed upon. The wording is Muslim's].
وَعَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- { أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-كَانَ يَطُوفُ عَلَى نِسَائِهِ بِغُسْلٍ وَاحِدٍ } أَخْرَجَاهُ , وَاللَّفْظُ لِمُسْلِمٍ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1026
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1026
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1036
Bulugh al-Maram 1027
Narrated Anas (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) set Safiyah (RA) free, and made her freedom her dowry. [Agreed upon].
عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ , عَنِ اَلنَّبِيِّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ أَنَّهُ أَعْتَقَ صَفِيَّةَ , وَجَعَلَ عِتْقَهَا صَدَاقَهَا } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1027
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1027
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1037
Bulugh al-Maram 1028
Narrated Abu Salamah bin 'Abdur-Rahman (RA):
I asked 'Aishah (RA), "How much had Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) given as dowry?" She replied, "His dowry to his wives was twelve Uqiya and Nashsh." She asked, "Do you know what a an-Nashsh is?" I replied, "No." She said, "It is half an Uqiya. Hence, the total was five hundred Dirhams, and that was Allah's Messenger's (ﷺ) dowry to his wives." [Reported by Muslim].
وَعَنْ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ بْنِ عَبْدِ اَلرَّحْمَنِ ; أَنَّهُ قَالَ : { سَأَلْتُ عَائِشَةَ زَوْجَ اَلنَّبِيِّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-كَمْ كَانَ صَدَاقُ رَسُولِ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَتْ : كَانَ صَدَاقُهُ لِأَزْوَاجِهِ ثِنْتَيْ عَشْرَةَ أُوقِيَّةً وَنَشًّا .‏ قَالَتْ : أَتَدْرِي مَا اَلنَّشُّ ? قَالَ : قُلْتُ : لَا .‏ قَالَتْ : نِصْفُ أُوقِيَّةٍ .‏ فَتِلْكَ خَمْسُمِائَةِ دِرْهَمٍ , فَهَذَا صَدَاقُ رَسُولِ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-لِأَزْوَاجِهِ } رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1028
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1028
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1038
Bulugh al-Maram 1029
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas (RA):
When 'Ali (RA) married Fatimah (RA) Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to him, "Give her something (as dowry)." He replied, "I have nothing." He said, "Where is your Hutamiya coat of mail?" [Reported by Abu Dawud and an-Nasa'i; al-Hakim graded it Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ ‏- رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا‏- قَالَ : { لَمَّا تَزَوَّجَ عَلِيٌّ فَاطِمَةَ ‏-عَلَيْهِمَا اَلسَّلَامُ‏- .‏ قَالَ لَهُ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-" أَعْطِهَا شَيْئًا " , قَالَ : مَا عِنْدِي شَيْءٌ .‏ قَالَ :" فَأَيْنَ دِرْعُكَ الحُطَمِيَّةُ ? } رَوَاهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ , وَالنَّسَائِيُّ , وَصَحَّحَهُ اَلْحَاكِمُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1029
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1029
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1039
Bulugh al-Maram 1030
Narrated 'Amr bin Shu'aib on his father's authority from his grandfather:
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "If any woman marries for a dowry, a gift, or a promise before contracting the marriage, it belongs to her. As for whatever is fixed to her after contracting the marriage, it belongs to whomever it has been given. The most worthy gift a man is honored with is what he gets on account of (the marriage of) his daughter or sister." [Reported by Ahmad and al-Arba'a except at-Tirmidhi].
وَعَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ شُعَيْبٍ , عَنْ أَبِيهِ , عَنْ جَدِّهِ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ أَيُّمَا اِمْرَأَةٍ نَكَحَتْ عَلَى صَدَاقٍ , أَوْ حِبَاءٍ , أَوْ عِدَةٍ , قَبْلَ عِصْمَةِ اَلنِّكَاحِ , فَهُوَ لَهَا, وَمَا كَانَ بَعْدَ عِصْمَةِ اَلنِّكَاحِ , فَهُوَ لِمَنْ أُعْطِيَهُ, وَأَحَقُّ مَا أُكْرِمَ اَلرَّجُلُ عَلَيْهِ اِبْنَتُهُ , أَوْ أُخْتُهُ } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ , وَالْأَرْبَعَةُ إِلَّا اَلتِّرْمِذِيَّ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1030
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1030
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1040
Bulugh al-Maram 1031
Narrated 'Alqamah on the authority of Ibn Mas'ud (RA):
He was asked about a man who had married a woman and had not fixed a dowry for her. And he did not consummate (the marriage) with her till he died. Ibn Mas'ud replied, "She should receive a dowry similar to what the women of her community receive without decrease or increase. She must observe the 'Iddah period (of waiting before re-marrying and is entitled to a share of the inheritance." Ma'qil bin Sinan al-Ashja'i then got up and said, "Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) ruled the same as your ruling regarding Birwa', daughter of Washiq, a woman of our tribe." Ibn Mas'ud was delighted with it. [Reported by Ahmad and al-Arba'a. at-Tirmidhi graded it Sahih (authentic), while a group (of Hadith scholars) graded it Hasan (good)]. Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah (RA): The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "If anyone gives as a dowry to a woman some flour or dates, he has made her lawful for himself." [Abu Dawud reported it, and indicated that the stronger opinion is that it is Mawquf (saying of a Companion)].
وَعَنْ عَلْقَمَةَ , عَنِ ابْنِ مَسْعُودٍ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- { أَنَّهُ سُئِلَ عَنْ رَجُلٍ تَزَوَّجَ اِمْرَأَةً , وَلَمْ يَفْرِضْ لَهَا صَدَاقًا , وَلَمْ يَدْخُلْ بِهَا حَتَّى مَاتَ , فَقَالَ اِبْنُ مَسْعُودٍ : لَهَا مِثْلُ صَدَاقِ نِسَائِهَا , لَا وَكْسَ , وَلَا شَطَطَ , وَعَلَيْهَا اَلْعِدَّةُ , وَلَهَا اَلْمِيرَاثُ، فَقَامَ مَعْقِلُ بْنُ سِنَانٍ الْأَشْجَعِيُّ فَقَالَ : قَضَى رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-فِي بِرْوَعَ بِنْتِ وَاشِقٍ ‏- اِمْرَأَةٍ مِنَّا ‏- مِثْلَ مَا قَضَيْتَ , فَفَرِحَ بِهَا اِبْنُ مَسْعُودٍ } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ , وَالْأَرْبَعَةُ , وَصَحَّحَهُ اَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ وَالْجَمَاعَةُ 1‏ 1032 ‏- وَعَنْ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اَللَّهِ ‏- رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا‏- { أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ : " مَنْ أَعْطَى فِي صَدَاقِ اِمْرَأَةٍ 2‏ سَوِيقًا , أَوْ تَمْرًا , فَقَدْ اِسْتَحَلَّ } أَخْرَجَهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ , وَأَشَارَ إِلَى تَرْجِيحِ وَقْفِهِ 3‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1031
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1031
English translation : Book 8, Hadith -1
Bulugh al-Maram 1033
Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Aamir bin Rabi'ah on the authority of his father:
The Prophet (ﷺ) gave his approval of the marriage of a woman for two sandals as a dowry. [at-Tirmidhi reported it and graded it Sahih (authentic), but he was opposed in that (grading of the Hadith)].
وَعَنْ عَبْدِ اَللَّهِ بْنِ عَامِرِ بْنِ رَبِيعَةَ , عَنْ أَبِيهِ { أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-أَجَازَ نِكَاحَ اِمْرَأَةٍ عَلَى نَعْلَيْنِ } أَخْرَجَهُ اَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ وَصَحَّحَهُ , وَخُولِفَ فِي ذَلِكَ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1033
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1033
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1043
Bulugh al-Maram 1034
Narrated Sahl bin Sa' (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) married a man to a woman for a dowry of an iron ring. [al-Hakim reported it].
وَعَنْ سَهْلِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ ‏- رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا‏- قَالَ : { زَوَّجَ اَلنَّبِيُّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-رَجُلاً اِمْرَأَةً بِخَاتَمٍ مِنْ حَدِيدٍ } أَخْرَجَهُ اَلْحَاكِمُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1034
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1034
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1044
Bulugh al-Maram 1034
It is a portion of the long Hadith preceding in the beginning of the Book of Marriage.
وَهُوَ طَرَفٌ مِنَ الْحَدِيثِ اَلطَّوِيلِ اَلْمُتَقَدِّمِ فِي أَوَائِلِ اَلنِّكَاحِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1034
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1034
Bulugh al-Maram 1034
Narrated 'Ali (RA):
The dowry should not be less than ten Dirhams. [ad-Daraqutni reported it as Mawquf (saying of a Companion, i.e. 'Ali). Also, its chain of narrators is questionable].
وَعَنْ عَلَيٍّ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ : { لَا يَكُونُ اَلْمَهْرُ أَقَلَّ مِنْ عَشَرَةِ دَرَاهِمَ } .‏ أَخْرَجَهُ اَلدَّارَقُطْنِيُّ مَوْقُوفًا , وَفِي سَنَدِهِ مَقَالٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1034
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1034
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1045
Bulugh al-Maram 1035
Narrated 'Uqbah bin 'Aamir (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "The best dowry is that which is most easy." [Abu Dawud reported it and al-Hakim graded it Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنْ عُقْبَةَ بْنِ عَامِرٍ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ خَيْرُ اَلصَّدَاقِ أَيْسَرُهُ } أَخْرَجَهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ , وَصَحَّحَهُ اَلْحَاكِمُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1035
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1035
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1046
Bulugh al-Maram 1036
Narrated 'Aishah (RA):
'Amrah (RA) daughter al-Jaun sought refuge (in Allah) from Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) when she was brought in to him - meaning when he married her - and he said, "You have sought refuge in the One Worthy of seeking refuge in." Then he divorced her, and commanded Usama who gave her three garments as a gift (i.e. dowry). [Ibn Majah reported it, but there is a rejected narrator in its chain of narrators].
وَعَنْ عَائِشَةَ ‏-رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهَا‏- { أَنَّ عَمْرَةَ بِنْتَ اَلْجَوْنِ تَعَوَّذَتْ مِنْ رَسُولِ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-حِينَ أُدْخِلَتْ عَلَيْهِ ‏- تَعْنِي: لَمَّا تَزَوَّجَهَا ‏- فَقَالَ : " لَقَدْ عُذْتِ بِمَعَاذٍ " , فَطَلَّقَهَا , وَأَمَرَ أُسَامَةَ فَمَتَّعَهَا بِثَلَاثَةِ أَثْوَابٍ } أَخْرَجَهُ اِبْنُ مَاجَهْ , وَفِي إِسْنَادِهِ رَاوٍ مَتْرُوكٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1036
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1036
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1047
Bulugh al-Maram 1037
The origin of the aforesaid story is found in the Sahih of al-Bukhari from Abu Usaid as-Sa'idi's Hadith.
وَأَصْلُ اَلْقِصَّةِ فِي " اَلصَّحِيحِ " مِنْ حَدِيثِ أَبِي أُسَيْدٍ اَلسَّاعِدِيِّ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1037
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1037
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1048
Bulugh al-Maram 1038
Narrated Anas bin Malik (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) saw the trace of yellow color on 'Abdur-Rahman bin 'Auf (RA) and asked, "What is this?" He replied, "O Messenger of Allah, I have married a woman for a Nawat weight (equal to one weight of a date-stone) of gold." He said. "May Allah bless you! Hold a wedding feast, even if with a sheep (only)." [Agreed upon; the wording is Muslim's].
عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- { أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-رَأَى عَلَى عَبْدِ اَلرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ عَوْفٍ أَثَرَ صُفْرَةٍ , قَالَ : " مَا هَذَا ? " , قَالَ : يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ ! إِنِّي تَزَوَّجْتُ اِمْرَأَةً عَلَى وَزْنِ نَوَاةٍ مِنْ ذَهَبٍ.‏ فَقَالَ : " فَبَارَكَ اَللَّهُ لَكَ , أَوْلِمْ وَلَوْ بِشَاةٍ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ , وَاللَّفْظُ لِمُسْلِمٍ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1038
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1038
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1049
Bulugh al-Maram 1039
Narrated Ibn 'Umar (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "When one of you is invited to a wedding feast he must attend it." [Agreed upon].
وَعَنْ اِبْنِ عُمَرَ ‏- رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا‏- قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ إِذَا دُعِيَ أَحَدُكُمْ إِلَى اَلْوَلِيمَةِ فَلْيَأْتِهَا } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1039
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1039
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1050
Bulugh al-Maram 1039
Muslims has:
"When one of you invites his brother, he must respond (i.e. attend), whether it is a wedding or something similar."
وَلِمُسْلِمٍ : { إِذَا دَعَا أَحَدُكُمْ أَخَاهُ , فَلْيُجِبْ; عُرْسًا كَانَ أَوْ نَحْوَهُ } 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1039
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1039
Bulugh al-Maram 1040
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "The worst kind of food is that at a wedding feast from which those who come (i.e. the poor) are turned away, and to which those who refuse (i.e. the rich) are invited. If anyone does not accept an invitation he has disobeyed Allah and His Messenger." [Reported by Muslim].
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ شَرُّ اَلطَّعَامِ طَعَامُ اَلْوَلِيمَةِ: يُمْنَعُهَا مَنْ يَأْتِيهَا , وَيُدْعَى إِلَيْهَا مَنْ يَأْبَاهَا , وَمَنْ لَمْ يُجِبِ اَلدَّعْوَةَ فَقَدْ عَصَى اَللَّهَ وَرَسُولَهُ } أَخْرَجَهُ مُسْلِمٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1040
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1040
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1051
Bulugh al-Maram 1041
Narrated [Abu Hurairah (RA)]:
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ), "When one of you is invited (to a meal) he must accept. If he is fasting he should pray (i.e. make supplication for the host) and if he is not fasting he should eat." [Muslim reported it too].
وَعَنْهُ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ إِذَا دُعِيَ أَحَدُكُمْ فَلْيُجِبْ ; فَإِنْ كَانَ صَائِمًا فَلْيُصَلِّ , وَإِنْ كَانَ مُفْطِرًا فَلْيُطْعَمْ } أَخْرَجَهُ مُسْلِمٌ أَيْضًا 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1041
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1041
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1052
Bulugh al-Maram 1042
Muslim has something similar to the above from the Hadith of Jabir (RA), it goes:
"If he wishes he may eat, and if he wishes he may leave (the food alone)."
وَلَهُ مِنْ حَدِيثِ جَابِرٍ نَحْوُهُ .‏ وَقَالَ : { فَإِنْ شَاءَ طَعِمَ وَإِنْ شَاءَ تَرَكَ } 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1042
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1042
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1053
Bulugh al-Maram 1043
Narrated Ibn Mas'ud (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "The food of Walima on the first day is a duty, that on the second day is a Sunnah, while the third is showing off. Whoever (does something) to show-off, Allah will expose him (in the Hereafter)." [Reported by at-Tirmidhi who considered it Gharib (transmitted through a single narrator)]. [It is incorrectly claimed that] its narrators are those who are reported from in the Sahih (collection of al-Bukhari)].
وَعَنْ اِبْنِ مَسْعُودٍ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ طَعَامُ الْوَلِيمَةِ أَوَّلَ يَوْمٍ حَقٌّ , وَطَعَامُ يَوْمِ اَلثَّانِي سُنَّةٌ, وَطَعَامُ يَوْمِ اَلثَّالِثِ سُمْعَةٌ ، وِمَنْ سَمَّعَ سَمَّعَ اللهُ بِهِ " " } رَوَاهُ اَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ وَاسْتَغْرَبَهُ , وَرِجَالُهُ رِجَالُ اَلصَّحِيحِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1043
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1043
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1054
Bulugh al-Maram 1044
This Hadith also has a supporting narration collected by Ibn Majah on the authority of Anas (RA).
وَلَهُ شَاهِدٌ : عَنْ أَنَسٍ عِنْدَ اِبْنِ مَاجَهْ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1044
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1044
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1055
Bulugh al-Maram 1045
Narrated Safiya (RA), daughter of Shaiba:
The Prophet (ﷺ) held a wedding feast for one of his wives with two Mudd of barley. [Reported by al-Bukhari].
وَعَنْ صَفِيَّةَ بِنْتِ شَيْبَةَ قَالَتْ : { أَوْلَمَ اَلنَّبِيُّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-عَلَى بَعْضِ نِسَائِهِ بِمُدَّيْنِ مِنْ شَعِيرٍ } أَخْرَجَهُ اَلْبُخَارِيُّ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1045
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1045
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1056
Bulugh al-Maram 1046
Narrated Anas (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) stayed three nights between Khaibar and al-Madinah when he consummated his marriage with Safiya (RA). I called the Muslims to his wedding feast which did not include bread or meat. He just ordered some leather dining sheets to be spread, and [Hais, a food made from] dates, sun-baked yogurt and butter were thrown on them. [Agreed upon: the wording is al-Bukhari's].
وَعَنْ أَنَسٍ قَالَ : { أَقَامَ اَلنَّبِيُّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-بَيْنَ خَيْبَرَ وَالْمَدِينَةِ ثَلَاثَ لَيَالٍ , يُبْنَى عَلَيْهِ بِصَفِيَّةَ , فَدَعَوْتُ اَلْمُسْلِمِينَ إِلَى وَلِيمَتِهِ , فَمَا كَانَ فِيهَا مِنْ خُبْزٍ وَلَا لَحْمٍ , وَمَا كَانَ فِيهَا إِلَّا أَنْ أَمَرَ بِالْأَنْطَاعِ , فَبُسِطَتْ , فَأُلْقِيَ عَلَيْهَا اَلتَّمْرُ , وَالْأَقِطُ , وَالسَّمْنُ.‏ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ , وَاللَّفْظُ لِلْبُخَارِيِّ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1046
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1046
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1057
Bulugh al-Maram 1047
Narrated a Companion of the Prophet (ﷺ):
"When two people come together to issue an invitation, accept that of the one whose door is nearer to you. However, if one of them comes before the other, accept the invitation of the first." [Reported by Abu Dawud, its chain of narrators is weak].
وَعَنْ رَجُلٍ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ اَلنَّبِيِّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ : { إِذَا اِجْتَمَعَ دَاعِيَانِ , فَأَجِبْ أَقْرَبَهُمَا بَابًا , فَإِنْ سَبَقَ أَحَدُهُمَا فَأَجِبِ اَلَّذِي سَبَقَ } رَوَاهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ , وَسَنَدُهُ ضَعِيفٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1047
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1047
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1058
Bulugh al-Maram 1048
Narrated Abu Juhaifah (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "I do not eat Muttaki'an (sitting with support of something, so as to eat more)." [Reported by al-Bukhari].
وَعَنْ أَبِي جُحَيْفَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ لَا آكُلُ مُتَّكِئًا } رَوَاهُ اَلْبُخَارِيُّ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1048
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1048
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1059
Bulugh al-Maram 1049
Narrated 'Umar bin Abu Salamah (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to me, "Dear child, mention Allah's Name, eat with your right hand, and eat from what is next to you." [Agreed upon].
وَعَنْ عُمَرَ بْنِ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ : قَالَ اَلنَّبِيُّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ يَا غُلَامُ ! سَمِّ اَللَّهَ , وَكُلْ بِيَمِينِكَ , وَكُلْ مِمَّا يَلِيكَ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1049
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1049
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1060
Bulugh al-Maram 1050
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) was brought a dish containing Tharid and said, "Eat from its side and not from the middle, for the blessing descends in the middle of it." [Reported by al-Arba'a. This is the wording of an-Nasa'i. Its chain of narrators is Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنْ اِبْنِ عَبَّاسٍ ; { أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-أُتِيَ بِقَصْعَةٍ مِنْ ثَرِيدٍ، فَقَالَ : "كُلُوا مِنْ جَوَانِبِهَا, وَلَا تَأْكُلُوا مِنْ وَسَطِهَا, فَإِنَّ اَلْبَرَكَةَ تَنْزِلُ فِي وَسَطِهَا } رَوَاهُ اَلْأَرْبَعَةُ , وَهَذَا لَفْظُ النَّسَائِيِّ , وَسَنَدُهُ صَحِيحٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1050
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1050
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1061
Bulugh al-Maram 1051
Abu Huraira reported that Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) never found fault with food (served to him). If he liked anything, he ate it and if he did not like it he left it. [Agreed upon]
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ : { مَا عَابَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-طَعَامًا قَطُّ , كَانَ إِذَا اِشْتَهَى شَيْئًا أَكَلَهُ , وَإِنْ كَرِهَهُ تَرَكَهُ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1051
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1051
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1062
Bulugh al-Maram 1052
Narrated Jabir (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "Do not eat with the left hand, for the devil eats with the left hand." [Reported by Muslim].
وَعَنْ جَابِرٍ , عَنْ رَسُولِ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ : { لَا تَأْكُلُوا بِالشِّمَالِ ; فَإِنَّ اَلشَّيْطَانَ يَأْكُلُ بِالشِّمَالِ } رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1052
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1052
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1063
Bulugh al-Maram 1053
Narrated Abu Qatadah (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "When one of you drinks, he must not breathe into the vessel." [Agreed upon].
وَعَنْ أَبِي قَتَادَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ : { إِذَا شَرِبَ أَحَدُكُمْ , فَلَا يَتَنَفَّسْ فِي اَلْإِنَاءِ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1053
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1053
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1064
Bulugh al-Maram 1054
Abu Dawud reported something similar from Ibn 'Abbas (RA) and he added:
"or blow into it," [at-Tirmidhi graded it Sahih (authentic)].
وَلِأَبِي دَاوُدَ : عَنْ اِبْنِ عَبَّاسٍ نَحْوُهُ , وَزَادَ : { أَوْ يَنْفُخْ فِيهِ } وَصَحَّحَهُ اَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1054
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1054
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1065
Bulugh al-Maram 1055
Narrated 'Aishah (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) used to divide visits to his wives equally and say, "O Allah, this is my division concerning what I possess, so do not blame me concerning what You possess and I do not." [Reported by al-Arba'a; Ibn Hibban and al-Hakim graded it Sahih (authentic). at-Tirmidhi held that the stronger view is that it is Mursal (a missing link in the chain after the Tabi'i)].
عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ‏-رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهَا‏- قَالَتْ : { كَانَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-يَقْسِمُ , فَيَعْدِلُ , وَيَقُولُ : "اَللَّهُمَّ هَذَا قَسْمِي فِيمَا أَمْلِكُ , فَلَا تَلُمْنِي فِيمَا تَمْلِكُ وَلَا أَمْلِكُ } رَوَاهُ اَلْأَرْبَعَةُ , وَصَحَّحَهُ اِبْنُ حِبَّانَ وَالْحَاكِمُ , وَلَكِنْ رَجَّحَ اَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ إِرْسَالَه ُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1055
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1055
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1066
Bulugh al-Maram 1056
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "Anyone who has two wives and inclines to one of them will come on the Day of Resurrection with a side (of his body) inclining." [Reported by Ahmad and al-Arba'a; its chain of narrators is Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- عَنْ اَلنَّبِيِّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ : { مَنْ كَانَتْ لَهُ اِمْرَأَتَانِ , فَمَالَ إِلَى إِحْدَاهُمَا , جَاءَ يَوْمَ اَلْقِيَامَةِ وَشِقُّهُ مَائِلٌ } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ , وَالْأَرْبَعَةُ , وَسَنَدُهُ صَحِيح ٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1056
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1056
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1067
Bulugh al-Maram 1057
Narrated Anas (RA):
It is from the Sunnah that when a man who has a wife marries a virgin, he should spend with her seven nights, and thereafter divide time between them (equally). And if he marries a formerly married woman he should spend with her three nights and thereafter divide the time between his wives (equally). [Agreed upon: the wording is al-Bukhari's].
وَعَنْ أَنَسٍ قَالَ : { مِنَ اَلسُّنَّةِ إِذَا تَزَوَّجَ اَلرَّجُلُ اَلْبِكْرَ عَلَى اَلثَّيِّبِ أَقَامَ عِنْدَهَا سَبْعًا , ثُمَّ قَسَمَ , وَإِذَا تَزَوَّجَ اَلثَّيِّبَ أَقَامَ عِنْدَهَا ثَلَاثًا , ثُمَّ قَسَمَ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ , وَاللَّفْظُ لِلْبُخَارِيّ ِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1057
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1057
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1068
Bulugh al-Maram 1058
Narrated Umm Salamah (RA):
When the Prophet (ﷺ) married her he stayed with her for three nights and said, "You are not being humbles in my estimation. If you wish I shall stay with you seven nights, and if I stay with you for seven nights I shall do the same with my other wives." [Reported by Muslim].
وَعَنْ أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ ‏-رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهَا‏- { أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-لَمَّا تَزَوَّجَهَا أَقَامَ عِنْدَهَا ثَلَاثًا , وَقَالَ : " إِنَّهُ لَيْسَ بِكِ عَلَى أَهْلِكِ هَوَانٌ , إِنْ شِئْتِ سَبَّعْتُ لَكِ , وَإِنْ سَبَّعْتُ لَكِ سَبَّعْتُ لِنِسَائِي } رَوَاهُ مُسْلِم ٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1058
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1058
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1069
Bulugh al-Maram 1059
Narrated 'Aishah (RA):
Sauda (RA) daughter of Zam'ah gave away her day to 'Aishah (RA). So the Prophet (ﷺ) allotted a share to 'Aishah (RA) of her day and Sauda's. [Agreed upon].
وَعَنْ عَائِشَةَ ‏-رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهَا‏- { أَنَّ سَوْدَةَ بِنْتَ زَمْعَةَ وَهَبَتْ يَوْمَهَا لِعَائِشَةَ , وَكَانَ اَلنَّبِيُّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-يَقْسِمُ لِعَائِشَةَ يَوْمَهَا وَيَوْمَ سَوْدَةَ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْه ِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1059
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1059
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1070
Bulugh al-Maram 1060
Narrated 'Urwah (RA):
'Aishah (RA) said: "O my nephew, Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) would not prefer some of us over others regarding the division of the time he would spend with us. It was very rare that he would not visit us all, and come near each of his wives without having intercourse with her, till he reached the one whose day it was, and spent the night with her." [Reported by Ahmad and Abu Dawud, the wording is Abu Dawud's. al-Hakim graded it Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنْ عُرْوَةَ قَالَ : { قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ : يَا اِبْنَ أُخْتِي ! كَانَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-لَا يُفَضِّلُ بَعْضَنَا عَلَى بَعْضٍ فِي اَلْقَسْمِ مِنْ مُكْثِهِ عِنْدَنَا , وَكَانَ قَلَّ يَوْمٌ إِلَّا وَهُوَ يَطُوفُ عَلَيْنَا جَمِيعًا , فَيَدْنُو مِنْ كُلِّ اِمْرَأَةٍ مِنْ غَيْرِ مَسِيسٍ , حَتَّى يَبْلُغَ اَلَّتِي هُوَ يَوْمُهَا , فَيَبِيتَ عِنْدَهَا } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ , وَأَبُو دَاوُدَ وَاللَّفْظُ لَهُ , وَصَحَّحَهُ اَلْحَاكِم ُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1060
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1060
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1071
Bulugh al-Maram 1061
Muslim reported 'Aishah (RA) as saying:
"When Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) offered the 'Asr (afternoon) prayer, he would visit his wives in turn, then come close to them (kiss or hug them)." [The narrator reported the rest of the Hadith previous].
وَلِمُسْلِمٍ : عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ‏-رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهَا‏- قَالَتْ : { كَانَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-إِذَا صَلَّى اَلْعَصْرَ دَارَ عَلَى نِسَائِهِ , ثُمَّ يَدْنُو مِنْهُنَّ } اَلْحَدِيث َ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1061
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1061
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1072
Bulugh al-Maram 1062
Narrated 'Aishah (RA):
During the illness of which Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) died, he was asking, "Where shall I be tomorrow?" He desired that it would be 'Aishah's day. His wives therefore permitted him to stay where he wished, and he stayed in 'Aishah's house. [Agreed upon].
وَعَنْ عَائِشَةَ ‏-رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهَا‏- { أَنَّ رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-كَانَ يَسْأَلُ فِي مَرَضِهِ اَلَّذِي مَاتَ فِيهِ : " أَيْنَ أَنَا غَدًا ? " , يُرِيدُ : يَوْمَ عَائِشَةَ , فَأَذِنَ لَهُ أَزْوَاجُهُ يَكُونُ حَيْثُ شَاءَ , فَكَانَ فِي بَيْتِ عَائِشَةَ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْه ِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1062
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1062
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1073
Bulugh al-Maram 1063
Narrated ['Aishah (RA)]:
When Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) intended to go on a journey, he cast lots among his wives. Then, he would take with him the one who was chosen by the lot. [Agreed upon].
وَعَنْهَا قَالَتْ : { كَانَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-إِذَا أَرَادَ سَفَرًا أَقْرَعَ بَيْنَ نِسَائِهِ , فَأَيَّتُهُنَّ خَرَجَ سَهْمُهَا , خَرَجَ بِهَا } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْه ِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1063
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1063
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1074
Bulugh al-Maram 1064
Narrated 'Abdullah bin Zam'ah (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "None of you should whip his wife like the whipping of a slave." [Reported by al-Bukhari].
وَعَنْ عَبْدِ اَللَّهِ بْنِ زَمْعَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ لَا يَجْلِدُ أَحَدُكُمْ اِمْرَأَتَهُ جَلْدَ اَلْعَبْدِ } رَوَاهُ اَلْبُخَارِيّ ُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1064
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1064
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1075
Bulugh al-Maram 1065
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas (RA):
The wife of Thabit bin Qais came to the Prophet (ﷺ) and said, "O Allah's Messenger, I do not find fault with Thabit bin Qais (RA) in respect of character or religion, but I dislike (and fear) that I might commit an act of Kufr fil-Islam (that which is contradictory to Islamic behavior)." Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) asked her, "Will you give him back his garden?" And she replied, "Yes," so Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to him, "Accept the garden and divorce her, with one pronouncement (of divorce)." [Reported by al-Bukhari].
عَنْ اِبْنِ عَبَّاسٍ ‏- رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا‏- { أَنَّ اِمْرَأَةَ ثَابِتِ بْنِ قَيْسٍ أَتَتْ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-فَقَالَتْ : يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ ! ثَابِتُ بْنُ قَيْسٍ مَا أَعِيبُ عَلَيْهِ فِي خُلُقٍ وَلَا دِينٍ , وَلَكِنِّي أَكْرَهُ اَلْكُفْرَ فِي اَلْإِسْلَامِ , قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-" أَتَرُدِّينَ عَلَيْهِ حَدِيقَتَهُ ? " , قَالَتْ : نَعَمْ .‏ قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-" اِقْبَلِ اَلْحَدِيقَةَ , وَطَلِّقْهَا تَطْلِيقَةً } رَوَاهُ اَلْبُخَارِيُّ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1065
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1065
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1076
Bulugh al-Maram 1065
Another narration by him has:
"He commanded him to divorce her."
وَفِي رِوَايَةٍ لَهُ : { وَأَمَرَهُ بِطَلَاقِهَا } 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1065
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1065
Bulugh al-Maram 1066
Abu Dawud and at-Tirmidhi reported this Hadith and the later graded it Hasan (good):
"The wife of Thabit bin Qais got a divorce from him in return for a compensation (paid by her), and the Prophet (ﷺ) made her 'Iddah (period of waiting before re-marrying) one menstruation course."
وَلِأَبِي دَاوُدَ , وَاَلتِّرْمِذِيِّ وَحَسَّنَهُ : { أَنَّ اِمْرَأَةَ ثَابِتِ بْنِ قَيْسٍ اِخْتَلَعَتْ مِنْهُ , فَجَعَلَ اَلنَّبِيُّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-عِدَّتَهَا حَيْضَةً } 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1066
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1066
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1078
Bulugh al-Maram 1067
Ibn Majah reported the narration of 'Amr bin Shu'aib, on this father's authority, from his grandfather:
"Thabit bin Qais was very unattractive and his wife said, 'Were it not for the fear of Allah, when he entered my presence I would spit in his face.'"
وَفِي رِوَايَةِ عَمْرِوِ بْنِ شُعَيْبٍ , عَنْ أَبِيهِ , عَنْ جَدِّهِ عِنْدَ اِبْنِ مَاجَهْ : { أَنَّ ثَابِتَ بْنَ قَيْسٍ كَانَ دَمِيمً ا 1‏ وَأَنَّ اِمْرَأَتَهُ قَالَتْ : لَوْلَا مَخَافَةُ اَللَّهِ إِذَا دَخَلَ عَلَيَّ لَبَسَقْتُ فِي وَجْهِهِ } 2‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1067
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1067
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1079
Bulugh al-Maram 1068
Ahmad reported from Sahl bin Abu Hathma's Hadith that it was the first ever husband and wife separation for compensation in Islam.
وَلِأَحْمَدَ : مِنْ حَدِيثِ سَهْلِ بْنِ أَبِي حَثْمَةَ : { وَكَانَ ذَلِكَ أَوَّلَ خُلْعٍ فِي اَلْإِسْلَامِ } 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1068
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1068
Bulugh al-Maram 1069
Narrated Ibn 'Umar (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "The lawful thing which Allah hates most is divorce." [Reported by Abu Dawud and Ibn Majah, al-Hakim graded it Sahih (authentic), while Abu Hatim held the stronger view is that it is Mursal (missing link after the Tabi'i)].
عَنِ اِبْنِ عُمَرَ ‏- رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا‏- قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ أَبْغَضُ اَلْحَلَالِ عِنْدَ اَللَّهِ اَلطَّلَاقُ } رَوَاهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ , وَابْنُ مَاجَهْ , وَصَحَّحَهُ اَلْحَاكِمُ , وَرَجَّحَ أَبُو حَاتِمٍ إِرْسَالَهُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1069
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1069
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1080
Bulugh al-Maram 1070
Narrated Ibn 'Umar (RA):
In the time of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ), he divorced his wife while she was menstruating, so 'Umar asked Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) about that and he replied, "Command him to take her back and keep her till she is purified (from menses), has another period, and is then purified. If he then wishes he may keep her and if he wishes he may divorce her before having intercourse with her. That is the 'Iddah (period of waiting) which Allah commanded for the divorce of women." [Agreed upon].
وَعَنِ اِبْنِ عُمَرَ ‏- رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا { أَنَّهُ طَلَّقَ اِمْرَأَتَهُ ‏- وَهِيَ حَائِضٌ ‏- فِي عَهْدِ رَسُولِ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-فَسَأَلَ عُمَرُ رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-عَنْ ذَلِكَ ? فَقَالَ : " مُرْهُ فَلْيُرَاجِعْهَا , ثُمَّ لْيُمْسِكْهَا حَتَّى تَطْهُرَ , ثُمَّ تَحِيضَ , ثُمَّ تَطْهُرَ , ثُمَّ إِنْ شَاءَ أَمْسَكَ بَعْدُ , وَإِنْ شَاءَ طَلَّقَ بَعْدَ أَنْ يَمَسَّ , فَتِلْكَ اَلْعِدَّةُ اَلَّتِي أَمَرَ اَللَّهُ أَنْ تُطَلَّقَ لَهَا اَلنِّسَاءُ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1070
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1070
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1081
Bulugh al-Maram 1070
A narration by Muslim has:
"Command him to take her back, then divorce her when she is pure from the menstrual discharge, or pregnant."
وَفِي رِوَايَةٍ لِمُسْلِمٍ : { مُرْهُ فَلْيُرَاجِعْهَا, ثُمَّ لْيُطَلِّقْهَا طَاهِرًا أَوْ حَامِلًا } 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1070
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1070
Bulugh al-Maram 1070
Another narration by al-Bukhari has:
"It was regarded as one divorce."
وَفِي رِوَايَةٍ أُخْرَى لِلْبُخَارِيِّ : { وَحُسِبَتْ عَلَيْهِ تَطْلِيقَةً } 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1070
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1070
Bulugh al-Maram 1070
A narration of Muslim has:
"Ibn 'Umar (RA) said: 'If you had only made one or two pronouncements of divorce [it would have been better]. Indeed Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) commanded me to take her back, then keep her till she has another period, then give her a reprieve till she is purified, then divorce her before having intercourse with her. As for you, you have divorced her with three pronouncements (at once), and have therefore disobeyed your Rabb (your Lord, the Creator) concerning what He commanded you regarding divorcing your wife.'"
وَفِي رِوَايَةٍ لِمُسْلِمٍ : قَالَ اِبْنُ عُمَرَ : { أَمَّا أَنْتَ طَلَّقْتَهَا وَاحِدَةً أَوْ اِثْنَتَيْنِ ; فَإِنَّ رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-أَمَرَنِي أَنْ أُرَاجِعَهَا , ثُمَّ أُمْهِلَهَا حَتَّى تَحِيضَ حَيْضَةً أُخْرَى , وَأَمَّا أَنْتَ طَلَّقْتَهَا ثَلَاثًا , فَقَدْ عَصَيْتَ رَبَّكَ فِيمَا أَمَرَكَ مِنْ طَلَاقِ اِمْرَأَتِكَ } 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1070
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1070
Bulugh al-Maram 1070
Another narration [of Muslim] has:
"Abdullah bin 'Umar (RA) said: 'So he returned her to me and did not regarded it as anything, and said: When she is purified, either divorce her or keep her.'"
وَفِي رِوَايَةٍ أُخْرَى : قَالَ عَبْدُ اَللَّهِ بْنُ عُمَرَ : { فَرَدَّهَا عَلَيَّ , وَلَمْ يَرَهَا شَيْئًا , وَقَالَ : " إِذَا طَهُرَتْ فَلْيُطَلِّقْ أَوْ لِيُمْسِكْ } 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1070
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1070
Bulugh al-Maram 1071
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas (RA):
In the time of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ), Abu Bakr (RA) and the first two years of the caliphate of 'Umar (RA), the three pronouncements of divorce were regarded as one divorce. So 'Umar said, "People have made haste in an affair which they are required to take slowly. What if we execute it on them." So, he executed it on them. [Reported by Muslim].
وَعَنِ اِبْنِ عَبَّاسٍ ‏- رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا‏- قَالَ : { كَانَ اَلطَّلَاقُ عَلَى عَهْدِ رَسُولِ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-وَأَبِي بَكْرٍ , وَسَنَتَيْنِ مِنْ خِلَافَةِ عُمَرَ , طَلَاقُ اَلثَّلَاثِ وَاحِدَةٌ , فَقَالَ عُمَرُ بْنُ اَلْخَطَّابِ : إِنَّ اَلنَّاسَ قَدْ اِسْتَعْجَلُوا فِي أَمْرٍ كَانَتْ لَهُمْ فِيهِ أَنَاةٌ , فَلَوْ أَمْضَيْنَاهُ عَلَيْهِمْ ? فَأَمْضَاهُ عَلَيْهِمْ } .‏ رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1071
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1071
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1082
Bulugh al-Maram 1072
Narrated Mahmud bin Labid (RA):
WHen Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) was informed about a man who had divorced his wife with all three pronouncements (without any interval between them), he stood up in anger and said, 'Is Allah's Book being played with while I am among you?" As a result a man got up and said, "O Allah's Messenger, shall I kill him?" [Reported by an-Nasa'i; its narrators are reliable (thiqah)].
وَعَنْ مَحْمُودِ بْنِ لَبِيدٍ قَالَ : { أُخْبِرَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-عَنْ رَجُلٍ طَلَّقَ اِمْرَأَتَهُ ثَلَاثَ تَطْلِيقَاتٍ جَمِيعًا , فَقَامَ غَضْبَانَ ثُمَّ قَالَ : " أَيُلْعَبُ بِكِتَابِ اَللَّهِ تَعَالَى , وَأَنَا بَيْنَ أَظْهُرِكُمْ" .‏ حَتَّى قَامَ رَجُلٌ , فَقَالَ : يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ ! أَلَا أَقْتُلُهُ ? } رَوَاهُ النَّسَائِيُّ وَرُوَاتُهُ مُوَثَّقُونَ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1072
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1072
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1083
Bulugh al-Maram 1073
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas (RA):
Abu Rukana divorced Umm Rukana. So Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) told him, "Take your wife back." And he replied, "I have divorced her with three pronouncements." He said, "I have understood, take her back." [Reported by Abu Dawud].
وَعَنِ اِبْنِ عَبَّاسٍ ‏- رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا‏- قَالَ : { طَلَّقَ أَبُو رُكَانَةَ أُمَّ رُكَانَةَ .‏ فَقَالَ لَهُ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-" رَاجِعِ امْرَأَتَكَ " , فَقَالَ : إِنِّي طَلَّقْتُهَا ثَلَاثًا.‏ قَالَ : " قَدْ عَلِمْتُ , رَاجِعْهَا } رَوَاهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1073
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1073
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1084
Bulugh al-Maram 1073
A wording by Ahmad has:
Abu Rukana divorced his wife with three pronouncements, in one sitting. Then, he was grieved about her and Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) told him, "They (the three pronouncements) are reckoned as a single (utterance of divorce)." [The two Ahadith have Ibn Ishaq, in their chains of narrators, and his reliability has been questioned].
وَفِي لَفْظٍ لِأَحْمَدَ : { طَلَّقَ أَبُو رُكَانَةَ اِمْرَأَتَهُ فِي مَجْلِسٍ وَاحِدٍ ثَلَاثًا , فَحَزِنَ عَلَيْهَا , فَقَالَ لَهُ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-" فَإِنَّهَا وَاحِدَةٌ } وَفِي سَنَدِهَا اِبْنُ إِسْحَاقَ , وَفِيهِ مَقَالٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1073
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1073
Bulugh al-Maram 1074
Abu Dawud has reported (a Hadith) better than the aforesaid one through another chain, it has:
"Abu Rukana divorced his wife Suhaimah irrevocably and said, 'I swear by Allah that I meant it to be only a single utterance of divorce,' so the Prophet (ﷺ) returned her to him."
وَقَدْ رَوَى أَبُو دَاوُدَ مِنْ وَجْهٍ آخَرَ أَحْسَنَ مِنْهُ : { أَنَّ رُكَانَةَ طَلَّقَ اِمْرَأَتَهُ سُهَيْمَةَ اَلْبَتَّةَ , فَقَالَ : "وَاَللَّهِ مَا أَرَدْتُ بِهَا إِلَّا وَاحِدَةً, فَرَدَّهَا إِلَيْهِ اَلنَّبِيُّ ‏-صَلَّى اَللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ } ‏- 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1074
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1074
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1085
Bulugh al-Maram 1075
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "There are three things which, whether undertaken seriously or in jest, are treated as serious: marriage, divorce and taking back a wife after a divorce which is not final." [Reported by al-Arba'a except an-Nasa'i. al-Hakim graded it Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ ثَلَاثٌ جِدُّهنَّ جِدٌّ , وَهَزْلُهُنَّ جِدٌّ : اَلنِّكَاحُ , وَالطَّلَاقُ , وَالرَّجْعَةُ } رَوَاهُ اَلْأَرْبَعَةُ إِلَّا النَّسَائِيَّ , وَصَحَّحَهُ اَلْحَاكِمُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1075
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1075
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1086
Bulugh al-Maram 1076
In a narration of Ibn 'Adi, through another chain of narrators, which is Da'if (weak); it has:
"Divorce, emancipation and marriage."
وَفِي رِوَايَةٍ لِابْنِ عَدِيٍّ مِنْ وَجْهٍ آخَرَ ضَعِيفٍ : { اَلطَّلَاقُ , وَالْعِتَاقُ , وَالنِّكَاحُ } 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1076
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1076
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1087
Bulugh al-Maram 1077
al-Harith bin Abu Usamah reported from the Hadith of 'Ubadah bin as-Samit [RA) - tracing it to the Prophet (ﷺ):
"It is not permissible to play in three things: divorce, marriage and emancipation. Therefore, whoever pronounce (either of) them, they certainly become binding." [Its chain of narrators is Da'if (weak)].
وَلِلْحَارِثِ اِبْنِ أَبِي أُسَامَةَ : مِنْ حَدِيثِ عُبَادَةَ بْنِ اَلصَّامِتِ رَفَعَهُ : { لَا يَجُوزُ اَللَّعِبُ فِي ثَلَاثٍ : اَلطَّلَاقُ , وَالنِّكَاحُ , وَالْعِتَاقُ , فَمَنْ قَالَهُنَّ فَقَدَ وَجَبْنَ } وَسَنَدُهُ ضَعِيفٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1077
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1077
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1088
Bulugh al-Maram 1078
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "Allah, the Most High, has forgiven my followers what they contemplate on within themselves (i.e. evil thoughts) as long as they do not act upon or speak about them." [Agreed upon].
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- عَنِ اَلنَّبِيِّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ : { إِنَّ اَللَّهَ تَجَاوَزَ عَنْ أُمَّتِي مَا حَدَّثَتْ بِهِ أَنْفُسَهَا , مَا لَمْ تَعْمَلْ أَوْ تَكَلَّمْ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1078
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1078
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1089
Bulugh al-Maram 1079
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ)) said: "Allah, the Most High, has overlooked my follower's mistakes and forgetfulness, and what they are forced to do against their will." [Reported by Ibn Majah and al-Hakim. Abu Hatim said that it is not an established (authentic) Hadith].
وَعَنِ اِبْنِ عَبَّاسٍ ‏- رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا‏- , عَنْ اَلنَّبِيِّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ : { إِنَّ اَللَّهَ تَعَالَى وَضَعَ عَنْ أُمَّتِي اَلْخَطَأَ , وَالنِّسْيَانَ , وَمَا اسْتُكْرِهُوا عَلَيْهِ } رَوَاهُ اِبْنُ مَاجَهْ , وَالْحَاكِمُ , وَقَالَ أَبُو حَاتِمٍ : لَا يَثْبُتُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1079
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1079
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1090
Bulugh al-Maram 1080
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas (RA):
"If anyone makes his wife unlawful for himself - it is nothing." He said, "Indeed you have a good example in Allah's Messenger." [Reported by al-Bukhari].
وَعَنِ اِبْنِ عَبَّاسٍ ‏- رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا‏- قَالَ : { إِذَا حَرَّمَ اِمْرَأَتَهُ لَيْسَ بِشَيْءٍ } .‏ وَقَالَ : ﴿ لَقَدْ كَانَ لَكُمْ فِي رَسُولِ اَللَّهِ أُسْوَةٌ حَسَنَةٌ ﴾ 1‏ اَلْأَحْزَاب : 21 .‏ رَوَاهُ اَلْبُخَارِيُّ 2‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1080
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1080
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1091
Bulugh al-Maram 1080
Muslim has:
"When a man makes his wife unlawful for himself, it is (treated like) an oath for which atonement must be made (if broken)."
وَلِمُسْلِمٍ : { إِذَا حَرَّمَ اَلرَّجُلُ عَلَيْهِ اِمْرَأَتَهُ , فَهِيَ يَمِينٌ يُكَفِّرُهَا } 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1080
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1080
Bulugh al-Maram 1081
Narrated 'Aishah (RA):
When the daughter of al-Jaun was admitted into the presence of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) and he went near her, she said, "I seek refuge in Allah from you." He replied, "You have sought refuge in the Supreme [One Who is worthy of refuge being taken in], return to your family." [Reported by al-Bukhari].
وَعَنْ عَائِشَةَ ‏-رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهَا‏- { أَنَّ اِبْنَةَ اَلْجَوْنِ لَمَّا أُدْخِلَتْ عَلَى رَسُولِ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-وَدَنَا مِنْهَا .‏ قَالَتْ : أَعُوذُ بِاَللَّهِ مِنْكَ , قَالَ : " لَقَدْ عُذْتِ بِعَظِيمٍ , اِلْحَقِي بِأَهْلِكِ } رَوَاهُ اَلْبُخَارِيُّ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1081
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1081
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1092
Bulugh al-Maram 1082
Narrated Jabir (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "There is no divorce except after marriage, and no freeing (of a slave) till one has possession (of one)." [Reported by Abu Ya'la and al-Hakim graded it Sahih (authentic), but it is Ma'lul (containing a hidden defective).
وَعَنْ جَابِرٍ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ : { لَا طَلَاقَ إِلَّا بَعْدَ نِكَاحٍ , وَلَا عِتْقَ إِلَّا بَعْدَ مِلْكٍ } رَوَاهُ أَبُو يَعْلَى , وَصَحَّحَهُ اَلْحَاكِمُ , وَهُوَ مَعْلُولٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1082
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1082
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1093
Bulugh al-Maram 1083
Ibn Majah reported a similar narration, on the authority of al-Miswar bin Makhramah, and its chain of narrators is (or appears to be) Hasan (good), but it is also Ma'lul (hidden defect)].
وَأَخْرَجَ اِبْنُ مَاجَهْ : عَنِ اَلْمِسْوَرِ بْنِ مَخْرَمَةَ مِثْلَهُ , وَإِسْنَادُهُ حَسَنٌ , لَكِنَّهُ مَعْلُولٌ أَيْضًا 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1083
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1083
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1094
Bulugh al-Maram 1084
Narrated 'Amr bin Shu'aib on his father's authority from his grandfather:
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "No descendant of Adam may make a vow concerning something he does not possess, or set free (a slave) that he does not possess, or divorce (a woman) whom he does not possess (in marriage)." [Abu Dawud and at-Tirmidhi reported it; the latter graded it Sahih (authentic), and transmitted from al-Bukhari his statement that it is the most authentic Hadith on this subject].
وَعَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ شُعَيْبٍ , عَنْ أَبِيهِ , عَنْ جَدِّهِ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ لَا نَذْرَ لِابْنِ آدَمَ فِيمَا لَا يَمْلِكُ , وَلَا عِتْقِ لَهُ فِيمَا لَا يَمْلِكُ , وَلَا طَلَاقَ
لَهُ فِيمَا لَا يَمْلِكُ } أَخْرَجَهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ وَاَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ وَصَحَّحَهُ, وَنُقِلَ عَنْ اَلْبُخَارِيِّ أَنَّهُ أَصَحُّ مَا وَرَدَ فِيهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1084
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1084
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1095
Bulugh al-Maram 1085
Narrated 'Aishah (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "There are three people whose actions are not recorded, a sleeping person till he awakes, a child till he is a grown up, and an insane person till he is restored to reason or recovers his sense." [Reported by Ahmad and al-Arba'a, except at-Tirmidhi. al-Hakim graded it Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهَا, عَنْ اَلنَّبِيِّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ: { رُفِعَ اَلْقَلَمُ عَنْ ثَلَاثَةٍ: عَنِ اَلنَّائِمِ حَتَّى يَسْتَيْقِظَ, وَعَنِ اَلصَّغِيرِ حَتَّى يَكْبُرَ, وَعَنِ اَلْمَجْنُونِ حَتَّى يَعْقِلَ, أَوْ يَفِيقَ } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ, وَالْأَرْبَعَةُ إِلَّا اَلتِّرْمِذِيَّ وَصَحَّحَهُ اَلْحَاكِمُ.‏ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1085
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1085
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1096
Bulugh al-Maram 1086
Narrated 'Imran bin Husain (RA):
He was asked about a man who divorces his wife, then takes her back without taking witnesses (on either). So he replied, "Get witnesses on her divorce, and on her return." [Abu Dawud reported it Mawquf (saying of a Companion), and its chain of narrators is Sahih (authentic)].
عَنْ عِمْرَانَ بْنِ حُصَيْنٍ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا; { أَنَّهُ سُئِلَ عَنْ اَلرَّجُلِ يُطَلِّقُ, ثُمَّ يُرَاجِعُ, وَلَا يُشْهِدُ? فَقَالَ: أَشْهِدْ عَلَى طَلَاقِهَا, وَعَلَى رَجْعَتِهَا } .‏ رَوَاهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ هَكَذَا مَوْقُوفًا, وَسَنَدُهُ صَحِيحٌ .‏ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1086
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1086
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1097
Bulugh al-Maram 1087
Narrated Ibn 'Umar (RA):
When he divorced his wife the Prophet (ﷺ) said to 'Umar, "Command him to take her back." [Agreed upon].
وَعَنِ اِبْنِ عُمَرَ, { أَنَّهُ لَمَّا طَلَّقَ اِمْرَأَتَهُ، قَالَ اَلنَّبِيُّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-لِعُمَرَ: "مُرْهُ فَلْيُرَاجِعْهَا.‏ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْه ِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1087
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1087
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1098
Bulugh al-Maram 1088
Narrated 'Aishah (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) swore that he would stay away from his wives for a period. He made something unlawful (for himself) (i.e. something not in itself unlawful). So, he made the lawful unlawful, and he made atonement for breaking an oath. [Reported by at-Tirmidhi, and its narrators are reliable (thiqah)].
عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ: { آلَى رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-مِنْ نِسَائِهِ وَحَرَّمَ, فَجَعَلَ اَلْحَرَامَ حَلَالًا , وَجَعَلَ لِلْيَمِينِ كَفَّارَةً.‏ } رَوَاهُ اَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ, وَرُوَاتُهُ ثِقَاتٌ .‏ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1088
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1088
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1099
Bulugh al-Maram 1089
Narrated Ibn 'Umar (RA):
When a period of four months elapses, the one who swears to stay away from his wife must be made to return to her or divorce her, and the divorce is not valid till the husband himself pronounces it. [al-Bukhari reported it].
وَعَنِ اِبْنِ عُمَرَ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا قَالَ: { إِذَا مَضَتْ أَرْبَعَةُ أَشْهُرٍ وَقَفَ اَلْمُؤْلِ ي 1‏ حَتَّى يُطَلِّقَ, وَلَا يَقَعُ عَلَيْهِ اَلطَّلَاقُ حَتَّى يُطَلِّقَ } .‏ أَخْرَجَهُ اَلْبُخَارِيّ ُ 2‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1089
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1089
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1100
Bulugh al-Maram 1090
Narrated Sulaiman bin Yasar (RA):
I met thirteen or more of the Companions of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ), all of them made the one who swears to stay away from his wife, return to her or divorce her (at the end of the period). [Reported by ash-Shafi'i].
وَعَنْ سُلَيْمَانَ بْنِ يَسَارٍ قَالَ: { أَدْرَكْتُ بِضْعَةَ عَشَرَ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ اَلنَّبِيِّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-كُلُّهُمْ يَقِفُونَ اَلْمُؤْلِي } .‏ رَوَاهُ اَلشَّافِعِيّ ُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1090
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1090
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1101
Bulugh al-Maram 1091
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas (RA):
The swearing to stay away from one's wife in al-Jahiliyyah era was for one or two years. Then, Allah appointed a period of four months for it. So, if it is less than four months, it is not swearing to stay away from one's wife. [al-Baihaqi reported it]
وَعَنِ اِبْنِ عَبَّاسٍ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا قَالَ: { كَانَ إِيلَاءُ اَلْجَاهِلِيَّةِ اَلسَّنَةَ وَالسَّنَتَيْنِ, فَوَقَّتَ اَللَّهُ أَرْبَعَةَ أَشْهُرٍ, فَإِنْ كَانَ أَقَلَّ مِنْ أَرْبَعَةِ أَشْهُرٍ, فَلَيْسَ بِإِيلَاءٍ } أَخْرَجَهُ اَلْبَيْهَقِيُّ .‏ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1091
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1091
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1102
Bulugh al-Maram 1092
Narrated [Ibn 'Abbas (RA)]:
A man had vowed to make his wife like his mother (i.e. forbidden for him). Then he had intercourse with her, so he went to the Prophet (ﷺ) and said, "I had intercourse with her before making the atonement." He replied, "Do not go near her till you do what Allah has commanded you to do." Reported by al-Arba'a. at-Tirmidhi graded it Sahih (authentic) but an-Nasa'i held that the stronger view is that it is Mursal (missing link after the Tabi'i)].
وَعَنْهُ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ تَعَالَى عَنْهُمَا; { أَنَّ رَجُلًا ظَاهَرَ مِنِ اِمْرَأَتِهِ, ثُمَّ وَقَعَ عَلَيْهَا, فَأَتَى اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-فَقَالَ: إِنِّي وَقَعْتُ عَلَيْهَا قَبْلَ أَنْ أُكَفِّرَ, قَالَ: "فَلَا تَقْرَبْهَا حَتَّى تَفْعَلَ مَا أَمَرَكَ اَللَّهُ".‏ } رَوَاهُ اَلْأَرْبَعَةُ وَصَحَّحَهُ اَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ, وَرَجَّحَ النَّسَائِيُّ إِرْسَالَه ُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1092
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1092
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1103
Bulugh al-Maram 1092
al-Bazzar reported it through another chain, from Ibn 'Abbas (RA) and he added:
"Make atonement and do not repeat it."
وَرَوَاهُ اَلْبَزَّارُ: مِنْ وَجْهٍ آخَرَ, عَنِ اِبْنِ عَبَّاسٍ وَزَادَ فِيهِ: { كَفِّرْ وَلَا تَعُدْ } 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1092
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1092
Bulugh al-Maram 1093
Narrated Salamah bin Sakhr (RA):
When the month of Ramadan came, I feared lest I would have intercourse with my wife. So, I vowed az-Zihar (the she was like my mother). Then, one night something of her was uncovered to me and I had intercourse with her. Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) afterwards said to me, "Set a slave free," and I replied, "I do not possess one (that I can free)." He said, "Then fast two consecutive months." I replied, "Have I fallen into that which I have fallen into except due to fasting!?" He said, "Feed sixty poor people with an 'Araq (basket) of dates." [Reported by Ahmad and al-Arba'a except an-Nasa'i. Ibn Khuzaimah and Ibn al-Jarud graded it Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنْ سَلَمَةَ بْنِ صَخْرٍ قَالَ: { دَخَلَ رَمَضَانُ, فَخِفْتُ أَنْ أُصِيبَ اِمْرَأَتِي, فَظَاهَرْتُ مِنْهَا, فَانْكَشَفَ لِي مِنْهَا شَيْءٌ لَيْلَةً, فَوَقَعَتْ عَلَيْهَا, فَقَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-"حَرِّرْ رَقَبَةً" قُلْتُ: مَا أَمْلِكُ إِلَّا رَقَبَتِي.‏ قَالَ: "فَصُمْ شَهْرَيْنِ مُتَتَابِعَيْنِ", قُلْتُ: وَهَلْ أَصَبْتُ اَلَّذِي أَصَبْتُ إِلَّا مِنْ اَلصِّيَامِ? قَالَ: "أَطْعِمْ عِرْقًا مِنْ تَمْرٍ بَيْنَ سِتِّينَ مِسْكِينًا".‏ } أَخْرَجَهُ أَحْمَدُ, وَالْأَرْبَعَةُ إِلَّا النَّسَائِيَّ, وَصَحَّحَهُ اِبْنُ خُزَيْمَةَ, وَابْنُ اَلْجَارُود ِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1093
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1093
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1104
Bulugh al-Maram 1094
Narrated Ibn 'Umar (RA):
So-and-so asked and said, "O Allah's Messenger, what do you think if one of us finds his wife committing adultery, how should he act? If he talks he would talk about a grievous affair, and if he keeps silent he would keep silent about something similar (a grievous affair)." He gave no answer. Afterwards he came to him (ﷺ) and said, "I have been afflicted with the very problem which I had asked you about." Then Allah revealed the verses of Surat an-Nur (the Light). He then recited them to him and exhorted, admonished and informed him that the punishment of this world is easier than that of the Hereafter. He said, "No, by Him Who sent you with the Truth, I have not lied against her." He then summoned the woman and exhorted her in the same way. She said, "No, by Him Who sent you with the Truth, he is a liar." He began with the man; and he (the man) bore witness four times with an oath by Allah; he then did the same with the woman, then he separated them. [Reported by Muslim].
عَنِ اِبْنِ عُمَرَ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا قَالَ: { سَأَلَ فُلَانٌ فَقَالَ: يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ! أَرَأَيْتَ أَنْ لَوْ وَجَدَ أَحَدُنَا اِمْرَأَتَهُ عَلَى فَاحِشَةٍ, كَيْفَ يَصْنَعُ? إِنْ تَكَلَّمَ تَكَلَّمَ بِأَمْرٍ عَظِيمٍ, وَإِنْ سَكَتَ سَكَتَ عَلَى مِثْلِ ذَلِكَ! فَلَمْ يُجِبْهُ, فَلَمَّا كَانَ بَعْدَ ذَلِكَ أَتَاهُ, فَقَالَ: إِنَّ اَلَّذِي سَأَلْتُكَ عَنْهُ قَدِ ابْتُلِيتُ بِهِ, فَأَنْزَلَ اَللَّهُ اَلْآيَاتِ فِي سُورَةِ اَلنُّورِ, فَتَلَاهُنَّ عَلَيْهِ وَوَعَظَهُ وَذَكَّرَهُ، وَأَخْبَرَهُ أَنَّ عَذَابَ اَلدُّنْيَا أَهْوَنُ مِنْ عَذَابِ اَلْآخِرَةِ.‏ قَالَ: لَا, وَاَلَّذِي بَعَثَكَ بِالْحَقِّ مَا كَذَبْتُ عَلَيْهَا, ثُمَّ دَعَاهَا اَلنَّبِيُّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-فَوَعَظَهَا كَذَلِكَ, قَالَتْ: لَا, وَاَلَّذِي بَعَثَكَ بِالْحَقِّ إِنَّهُ لَكَاذِبٌ, فَبَدَأَ بِالرَّجُلِ, فَشَهِدَ أَرْبَعَ شَهَادَاتٍ, ثُمَّ ثَنَّى بِالْمَرْأَةِ, ثُمَّ فَرَّقَ بَيْنَهُمَا.‏ }
رَوَاهُ مُسْلِم ٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1094
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1094
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1105
Bulugh al-Maram 1095
Narrated [Ibn 'Umar (RA)]:
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to the two who were invoking curses regarding one another, "Your reckoning is in Allah's Hands for one of you is lying. You cannot remarry her." He (the man) said: "O Allah's Messenger, what about my property (dowry)?" He replied, "If you have spoken the truth, it is the price of your having had the right of intercourse with her, and if you have lied against her, it is even more remote for you (to get it back) from her." [Agreed upon].
وَعَنِ اِبْنِ عُمَرَ أَيْضًا { أَنَّ رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ لِلْمُتَلَاعِنَيْنِ: "حِسَابُكُمَا عَلَى اَللَّهِ تَعَالَى, أَحَدُكُمَا كَاذِبٌ, لَا سَبِيلَ لَكَ عَلَيْهَا" قَالَ: يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ! مَالِي? قَالَ: "إِنْ كُنْتَ صَدَقْتَ عَلَيْهَا, فَهُوَ بِمَا اِسْتَحْلَلْتَ مِنْ فَرْجِهَا, وَإِنْ كُنْتَ كَذَبْتَ عَلَيْهَا, فَذَاكَ أَبْعَدُ لَكَ مِنْهَا" } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْه ِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1095
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1095
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1106
Bulugh al-Maram 1096
Narrated Anas (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "Observe her, and if she gives birth to a child which is white complexioned with dark hair, her husband would be its father. But if she gives birth to a child with eyes looking as if they have antimony (Kuhl) in them and curled hair, the man whom her husband charged her with committing adultery is its father." [Agreed upon].
وَعَنِ أَنَسٍ, أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ: { أَبْصِرُوهَا, فَإِنْ جَاءَتْ بِهِ أَبْيَضَ سَبِطًا فَهُوَ لِزَوْجِهَا, وَإِنْ جَاءَتْ بِهِ أَكْحَلَ جَعْدًا, فَهُوَ اَلَّذِي رَمَاهَا بِهِ }
مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْه ِ 1
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1096
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1096
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1107
Bulugh al-Maram 1097
Narrated Ibn Abbas (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) ordered a man to put his hand on his mouth when he came to the fifth pronouncement and said, "It would be the deciding one." [Reported by Abu Dawud and an-Nasa'i. It's narrators are reliable].
وَعَنِ اِبْنِ عَبَّاسٍ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا; { أَنَّ رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-أَمَرَ رَجُلاً أَنْ يَضَعَ يَدَهُ عِنْدَ اَلْخَامِسَةِ عَلَى فِيهِ, وَقَالَ: "إِنَّهَا مُوجِبَةٌ" } رَوَاهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ, وَالنَّسَائِيُّ, وَرِجَالُهُ ثِقَات ٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1097
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1097
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1108
Bulugh al-Maram 1098
Narrated Sahl bin Sa'd (RA) concerning the story of the two (husband and wife) who invoked curses regarding one another:
When they finished invoking curses regarding one another the man said, "I shall have lied against her, O Allah's Messenger, if I keep her (as a wife)." He, then, pronounced her divorce three times, even before Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) commanded him to do so. [Agreed upon].
وَعَنْ سَهْلِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ ‏-فِي قِصَّةِ اَلْمُتَلَاعِنَيْنِ‏- قَالَ: { فَلَمَّا فَرَغَا مِنْ تَلَاعُنِهِمَا قَالَ: كَذَبْتُ عَلَيْهَا يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ! إِنْ أَمْسَكْتُهَا, فَطَلَّقَهَا ثَلَاثًا قَبْلَ أَنْ يَأْمُرَهُ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-} مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ .‏ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1098
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1098
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1109
Bulugh al-Maram 1099
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas (ﷺ):
A man came to the Prophet (ﷺ) and said, "My wife rejects no hand of a man who wished to touch her." He said, "Banish her." He replied, "I am afraid my soul may desire her." He said, "Then enjoy her." [Reported by Abu Dawud and al-Bazzar, and its narrators are reliable].
وَعَنِ اِبْنِ عَبَّاسٍ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا { أَنَّ رَجُلاً جَاءَ إِلَى اَلنَّبِيِّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-فَقَالَ: إِنَّ اِمْرَأَتِي لَا تَرُدُّ يَدَ لَامِسٍ.‏ قَالَ: "غَرِّبْهَا".‏ قَالَ: أَخَافُ أَنْ تَتْبَعَهَا نَفْسِي.‏ قَالَ: "فَاسْتَمْتِعْ بِهَا".‏ } رَوَاهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ, وَالْبَزَّارُ, وَرِجَالُهُ ثِقَاتٌ.‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1099
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1099
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1110
Bulugh al-Maram 1099
an-Nasa'i reported it with through another chain, from Ibn 'Abbas (RA) with this wording:
He said, "Divorce her." He replied "I can not endure the desire for her." He said, "Then keep her."
وَأَخْرَجَهُ النَّسَائِيُّ مِنْ وَجْهٍ آخَرَ: عَنِ اِبْنِ عَبَّاسٍ بِلَفْظٍ { قَالَ: طَلِّقْهَا.‏ قَالَ: لَا أَصْبِرُ عَنْهَا.‏ قَالَ: "فَأَمْسِكْهَا } 1
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1099
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1099
Bulugh al-Maram 1100
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA):
He heard Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) say, when the Verse (24:6) about invoking curses came down, "Any woman who brings into a family one who does belong to it, is not an observer of Allah's (religion), and Allah will not admit her into His Paradise. Likewise, Allah will veil Himself from any man who disowns his child while he knows that is his child, and will humiliate him in the presence of the first and last (creatures)." [Abu Dawud, an-Nasa'i and Ibn Majah reported it; and Ibn Hibban graded it Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- { أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-يَقُولُ ‏-حِينَ نَزَلَتْ آيَةُ اَلْمُتَلَاعِنَيْنِ‏-: "أَيُّمَا اِمْرَأَةٍ أَدْخَلَتْ عَلَى قَوْمٍ مَنْ لَيْسَ مِنْهُمْ, فَلَيْسَتْ مِنْ اَللَّهِ فِي شَيْءٍ, وَلَنْ يُدْخِلَهَا اَللَّهُ جَنَّتَهُ, وَأَيُّمَا رَجُلٍ جَحَدَ وَلَدَهُ ‏-وَهُوَ يَنْظُرُ إِلَيْهِ‏- اِحْتَجَبَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُ, وَفَضَحَهُ اَللَّهُ عَلَى رُءُوسِ اَلْخَلَائِقِ اَلْأَوَّلِينَ وَالْآخِرِينَ } أَخْرَجَهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ, وَالنَّسَائِيُّ, وَابْنُ مَاجَهْ, وَصَحَّحَهُ اِبْنُ حِبَّان َ 1
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1100
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1100
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1111
Bulugh al-Maram 1101
Narrated 'Umar (RA):
If anyone acknowledges that he is the father of his child just for the blinking of an eye, he has no right to disown it." [al-Baihaqi reported it. The Hadith is Hasan (good) and Mawquf (saying of a Companion)].
وَعَنْ عُمَرَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ: { مَنْ أَقَرَّ بِوَلَدٍ طَرْفَةَ عَيْنٍ, فَلَيْسَ لَهُ أَنْ يَنْفِيَهُ } .‏ أَخْرَجَهُ اَلْبَيْهَقِيُّ, وَهُوَ حَسَنٌ مَوْقُوف ٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1101
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1101
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1112
Bulugh al-Maram 1102
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA):
A man said, "O Allah's Messenger, my wife has given birth to a black son." He asked, "Have you any camels?" He replied, "Yes." He asked, "What is their color?" He replied, "They are red." He asked, "Is there a dusky (dark) one among them?" He replied, "Yes." He asked, "How has that come about?" He replied, "It is perhaps a strain to which it has reverted (i.e. heredity)." He said, "It is perhaps a strain to which this son of yours has reverted." [Agreed upon].
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- { أَنَّ رَجُلًا قَالَ: يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ! إِنَّ اِمْرَأَتِي وَلَدَتْ غُلَامًا أَسْوَدَ? قَالَ: "هَلْ لَكَ مِنْ إِبِلٍ?" قَالَ: نَعَمْ.‏ قَالَ: "فَمَا أَلْوَانُهَا?" قَالَ: حُمْرٌ.‏ قَالَ: "هَلْ فِيهَا مَنْ أَوْرَقَ?", قَالَ: نَعَمْ.‏ قَالَ: "فَأَنَّى ذَلِكَ?", قَالَ: لَعَلَّهُ نَزَعَهُ عِرْقٌ.‏ قَالَ: "فَلَعَلَّ اِبْنَكَ هَذَا نَزَعَهُ عِرْقٌ".‏ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ .‏ 1
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1102
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1102
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1113
Bulugh al-Maram 1102
Muslim concluded the Hadith as follows:
"He did not permit him to disown him"
وَفِي رِوَايَةٍ لِمُسْلِمٍ: { وَهُوَ يُعَرِّضُ بِأَنْ يَنْفِيَهُ } , وَقَالَ فِي آخِرِهِ: { وَلَمْ يُرَخِّصْ لَهُ فِي اَلِانْتِفَاءِ مِنْهُ } 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1102
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1102
Bulugh al-Maram 1103
Narrated al-Miswar bin Makhramah (RA):
Some nights after her husband's death, Subai'ah al-Aslamiyah (RA) gave birth to a child. Then she went to the Prophet (ﷺ) and asked permission to marry. He gave her permission and she married. [Reported by al-Bukhari].
عَنْ اَلْمِسْوَرِ بْنِ مَخْرَمَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- { أَنَّ سُبَيْعَةَ الْأَسْلَمِيَّةَ ‏-رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهَا‏- نُفِسَتْ بَعْدَ وَفَاةِ زَوْجِهَا بِلَيَالٍ, فَجَاءَتْ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-فَاسْتَأْذَنَتْهُ أَنْ تَنْكِحَ, فَأَذِنَ لَهَا, فَنَكَحَتْ.‏ } رَوَاهُ اَلْبُخَارِيُّ 1
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1103
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1103
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1114
Bulugh al-Maram 1103
Its basic meaning is found in the two Sahih books of al-Bukhari and Muslim.
وَأَصْلُهُ فِي " اَلصَّحِيحَيْنِ " 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1103
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1103
Bulugh al-Maram 1103
A wording has:
"She gave birth to a child after forty nights of her husband's death."
وَفِي لَفْظٍ: { أَنَّهَا وَضَعَتْ بَعْدَ وَفَاةِ زَوْجِهَا بِأَرْبَعِينَ لَيْلَةً 1‏ } .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1103
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1103
Bulugh al-Maram 1103
A wording by Muslim has:
az-Zuhri said, "I think there is no harm if she marries when she is still bleeding (due to child-birth), but her husband should not go near her till she is purified."
وَفِي لَفْظٍ لِمُسْلِمٍ, قَالَ اَلزُّهْرِيُّ: { وَلَا أَرَى بَأْسًا أَنْ تَزَوَّجَ وَهِيَ فِي دَمِهَا, غَيْرَ أَنَّهُ لَا يَقْرَبُهَا زَوْجُهَا حتَّى تَطْهُرَ 1‏ } .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1103
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1103
Bulugh al-Maram 1104
Narrated 'Aishah (RA):
Barirah was ordered to wait till three menstrual periods of hers have passed (before she could remarry). [Reported by Ibn Majah. Its narrators are reliable, but it is Ma'lul (having a hidden defect)].
وَعَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ: { أُمِرَتْ بَرِيرَةُ أَنْ تَعْتَدَّ بِثَلَاثِ حِيَضٍ 1‏ } .‏ رَوَاهُ اِبْنُ مَاجَهْ, وَرُوَاتُهُ ثِقَاتٌ, لَكِنَّهُ مَعْلُولٌ 2‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1104
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1104
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1115
Bulugh al-Maram 1105
Narrated ash-Sha'bi from Fatimah (RA) daughter of Qais on the authority of the Prophet (ﷺ) regarding a woman who was divorced by three pronouncements:
"She has no right to accommodation or maintenance." [Reported by Muslim].
وَعَنْ اَلشَّعْبِيِّ, عَنْ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتِ قَيْسٍ, { عَنِ اَلنَّبِيِّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-‏-فِي اَلْمُطَلَّقَةِ ثَلَاثًا‏-: "لَيْسَ لَهَا سُكْنَى وَلَا نَفَقَةٌ" } رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1105
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1105
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1116
Bulugh al-Maram 1106
Narrated Umm 'Atiyah (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "A woman must not observe her mourning for more than three nights for the one who has died, except for the four months and ten days in the case of her husband; and she must not wear a dyed garment except one of the type made of 'Ash (dyed yarn) or apply Kuhl (antimony), or apply perfume, except for a little Qust or Azfar, when she has been purified after her menstruation." [Agreed upon. The wording being of Muslim].
وَعَنْ أُمِّ عَطِيَّةَ; أَنَّ رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ: { لَا تَحِدَّ اِمْرَأَةٌ عَلَى مَيِّتٍ فَوْقَ ثَلَاثٍ إِلَّا عَلَى زَوْجٍ أَرْبَعَةَ أَشْهُرٍ وَعَشْرًا, وَلَا تَلْبَسْ ثَوْبًا مَصْبُوغًا, إِلَّا ثَوْبَ عَصْبٍ, وَلَا تَكْتَحِلْ, وَلَا تَمَسَّ طِيبًا, إِلَّا إِذَا طَهُرَتْ نُبْذَةً مِنْ قُسْطٍ أَوْ أَظْفَارٍ.‏ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ, وَهَذَا لَفْظُ مُسْلِمٍ 1
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1106
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1106
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1117
Bulugh al-Maram 1106
Abu Dawud and an-Nasa'i have an addition:
"nor be dyed (with Henna and the like)."
وَلِأَبِي دَاوُدَ, وَالنَّسَائِيِّ مِنْ اَلزِّيَادَةِ: { وَلَا تَخْتَضِبْ } 1
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1106
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1106
Bulugh al-Maram 1106
an-Nasa'i added:
"nor comb (her hair)."
وَلِلنَّسَائِيِّ: "وَلَا تَمْتَشِطْ" 1
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1106
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1106
Bulugh al-Maram 1107
Narrated Umm Salamah (RA):
I put Sabir (a type of medicine) on my eyes after Abu Salamah (RA) had died. So Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "It gives the face a glow, so apply it only at night and remove it in the day time, and do not comb (your hair) with scent or henna, for it is a dye." I asked, "What should I use when combing (my hair)?" He replied, "You should use lote-tree leaves." [Reported by Abu Dawud and an-Nasa'i: its chain of narrators is Hasan (good)].
وَعَنْ أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ: { جَعَلْتُ عَلَى عَيْنِي صَبْرًا, بَعْدَ أَنْ تُوُفِّيَ أَبُو سَلَمَةَ, فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-"إِنَّهُ يَشِبُ اَلْوَجْهَ, فَلَا تَجْعَلِيهِ إِلَّا بِاللَّيْلِ, وَانْزِعِيهِ بِالنَّهَارِ, وَلَا تَمْتَشِطِي بِالطِّيبِ, وَلَا بِالْحِنَّاءِ, فَإِنَّهُ خِضَابٌ".‏ قُلْتُ: بِأَيِّ شَيْءٍ أَمْتَشِطُ? قَالَ: "بِالسِّدْرِ".‏ } رَوَاهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ, وَالنَّسَائِيُّ, وَإِسْنَادُهُ حَسَنٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1107
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1107
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1118
Bulugh al-Maram 1108
Narrated [Umm Salamah (RA)]:
A woman said: "O Allah's Messenger, my daughter's husband died and her eye is troubling her, so may we apply Kuhl (antimony) to it?" He replied, "No." [Agreed upon].
وَعَنْهَا; { أَنَّ اِمْرَأَةً قَالَتْ: يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ! إِنَّ اِبْنَتِي مَاتَ عَنْهَا زَوْجُهَا, وَقَدْ اِشْتَكَتْ عَيْنَهَا, أَفَنَكْحُلُهَا? قَالَ: "لَا".‏ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1108
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1108
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1119
Bulugh al-Maram 1109
Narrated Jabir (RA):
My maternal aunt was divorced and wanted to cut down fruit from her paml-trees. A man forbade her to go out, so she went to the Prophet (ﷺ) and he said, "Certainly, cut down fruit from your palm-trees, for perhaps you have give Sadaqah (charity) or do an act of kindness." [Reported by Muslim]. 1121. Narrated Furai'ah, daughter of Malik: Her husband had gone out in search of some slaves of his and they killed him. She said, "I asked Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) to be allowed to return to my family, for my husband had not left for me a house which belonged to him, nor had he left me maintenance." He then said, "Yes, (I agree)," but when I was in the courtyard, he called me and said, "Stay in your house till the prescribed period expires." She said, "I observed the period in it for four months and ten days." She said, "Afterwards 'Uthman gave judgements in accordance with that." [Ahmad an al-Arba'a reported it. at-Tirmidhi, adh-Dhuhli, Ibn Hibban, al-Hakim and others graded it Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنْ جَابِرٍ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ: { طُلِّقَتْ خَالَتِي, فَأَرَادَتْ أَنْ تَجُدَّ نَخْلَهَا فَزَجَرَهَا رَجُلٌ أَنْ تَخْرُجَ, فَأَتَتْ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-فَقَالَ: بَلْ جُدِّي نَخْلَكِ, فَإِنَّكَ عَسَى أَنْ تَصَدَّقِي, أَوْ تَفْعَلِي مَعْرُوفًا } رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ 1‏ 1110‏- وَعَنْ فُرَيْعَةَ بِنْتِ مَالِكٍ; { أَنَّ زَوْجَهَا خَرَجَ فِي طَلَبِ أَعْبُدٍ 2‏ لَهُ فَقَتَلُوهُ.‏ قَالَتْ: فَسَأَلْتُ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-أَنْ أَرْجِعَ إِلَى أَهْلِي; فَإِنَّ زَوْجِي لَمْ يَتْرُكْ لِي مَسْكَنًا يَمْلِكُهُ وَلَا نَفَقَةً, فَقَالَ: "نَعَمْ".‏ فَلَمَّا كُنْتُ فِي اَلْحُجْرَةِ نَادَانِي, فَقَالَ: " اُمْكُثِي فِي بَيْتِكَ حَتَّى يَبْلُغَ اَلْكِتَابُ أَجَلَهُ".‏ قَالَتْ: فَاعْتَدَدْتُ فِيهِ أَرْبَعَةَ أَشْهُرٍ وَعَشْرًا, قَالَتْ: فَقَضَى بِهِ بَعْدَ ذَلِكَ عُثْمَانُ } أَخْرَجَهُ أَحْمَدُ, وَالْأَرْبَعَةُ, وَصَحَّحَهُ اَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ, والذُّهْلِيُّ, وَابْنُ حِبَّانَ, وَالْحَاكِمُ وَغَيْرُهُمْ 3‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1109
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1109
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1120
Bulugh al-Maram 1111
Narrated Fatimah (RA) daughter of Qais:
I said, "O Allah's Messenger, my husband has divorced me by three pronouncements (of divorce) and I am afraid that I may get broken into. Hence, he commanded her, and she moved (to another house)." [Reported by Muslim].
وَعَنْ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتِ قَيْسٍ قَالَتْ: { يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ! إِنَّ زَوْجِي طَلَّقَنِي ثَلَاثًا, وَأَخَافُ أَنْ يُقْتَحَمَ عَلَيَّ, قَالَ: فَأَمَرَهَا, فَتَحَوَّلَتْ.‏ } رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1111
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1111
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1122
Bulugh al-Maram 1112
Narrated 'Amr bin al-'Aas (RA):
"Do not confuse us about our Prophet's Sunnah: The period that a slave-woman, whose master dies, and she has begotten a child from him must wait for, is four months and ten days." [Reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawud and Ibn Majah. al-Hakim graded it Sahih (authentic), but ad-Daraqutni considered it defective due to Inqita' (broken link)].
وَعَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ الْعَاصِ قَالَ: { لَا تُلْبِسُوا عَلَيْنَا سُنَّةَ نَبِيِّنَا, عِدَّةُ أُمِّ اَلْوَلَدِ إِذَا تُوُفِّيَ عَنْهَا سَيِّدُهَا أَرْبَعَةَ أَشْهُرٍ وَعَشْرًا } .‏ رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ, وَأَبُو دَاوُدَ, وَابْنُ مَاجَهْ, وَصَحَّحَهُ اَلْحَاكِمُ, وَأَعَلَّهُ اَلدَّارَقُطْنِيُّ بِالِانْقِطَاعِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1112
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1112
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1123
Bulugh al-Maram 1113
Narrated 'Aishah (RA):
al-Aqra' is the period of a woman's purity (which occurs between two menses). [Malik, Ahmad and an-Nasa'i reported it in the course of a story with a Sahih (authentic) chain of narrators].
وَعَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ: { إِنَّمَا اَلْأَقْرَاءُ; اَلْأَطْهَارُ } .‏ أَخْرَجَهُ مَالِكٌ فِي قِصَّةٍ بِسَنَدٍ صَحِيحٍ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1113
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1113
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1124
Bulugh al-Maram 1114
Narrated Ibn 'Umar (RA):
The divorce of a slave-woman occurs by saying it (the divorce word) twice, and her 'Iddah (waiting period) is two menses. [Reported by ad-Daraqutni].
وَعَنِ اِبْنِ عُمَرَ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا قَالَ: { طَلَاقُ اَلْأَمَةِ تَطْلِيقَتَانِ, وَعِدَّتُهَا حَيْضَتَانِ } رَوَاهُ اَلدَّارَقُطْنِيُّ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1114
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1114
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1125
Bulugh al-Maram 1114
He reported it as Marfu' (a saying of the Prophet) and graded it Da'if (weak).
وَأَخْرَجَهُ مَرْفُوعًا وَضَعَّفَهُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1114
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1114
Bulugh al-Maram 1115
Abu Dawud, at-Tirmidhi and Ibn Majah reported the aforesaid Hadith from the narration of 'Aishah (RA), which al-Hakim graded as Sahih (authentic), but the Hadith scholars disagreed with him, and they agreed that it is Da'if (weak).
وَأَخْرَجَهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ, وَاَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ, وَابْنُ مَاجَهْ: مِنْ حَدِيثِ عَائِشَةَ, وَصَحَّحَهُ اَلْحَاكِمُ, وَخَالَفُوهُ, فَاتَّفَقُوا عَلَى ضَعْفِهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1115
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1115
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1126
Bulugh al-Maram 1116
Narrated Ruwaifi' bin Thabit (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "It is not lawful for a man who believes in Allah and the Last Day to water what another person has sown." [Abu Dawud and at-Tirmidhi reported it. Ibn Hibban graded it Sahih (authentic), and al-Bazzar graded it Hasan (good)].
وَعَنْ رُوَيْفِعِ بْنِ ثَابِتٍ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- عَنْ اَلنَّبِيِّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ: { لَا يَحِلُّ لِامْرِئٍ يُؤْمِنُ بِاَللَّهِ وَالْيَوْمِ اَلْآخِرِ أَنْ يَسْقِيَ مَاءَهُ زَرْعَ غَيْرِهِ .‏ } أَخْرَجَهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ, وَاَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ, وَصَحَّحَهُ اِبْنُ حِبَّانَ, وَحَسَّنَهُ اَلْبَزَّارُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1116
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1116
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1127
Bulugh al-Maram 1117
Narrated 'Umar (RA) regarding a wife of a lost husband:
She should wait for four years and then observe the 'Iddah for four months and ten days (before she may remarry). [Malik and ash-Shafi'i reported it].
وَعَنْ عُمَرَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- ‏- { فِي اِمْرَأَةِ اَلْمَفْقُودِ‏- تَرَبَّصُ أَرْبَعَ سِنِينَ, ثُمَّ تَعْتَدُّ أَرْبَعَةَ أَشْهُرٍ وَعَشْرًا } .‏ أَخْرَجَهُ مَالِكٌ, وَالشَّافِعِيُّ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1117
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1117
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1128
Bulugh al-Maram 1118
Narrated al-Mughirah bin Shu'bah (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "The spouse of a lost husband remains his wife till she gets a certain news about his death." [ad-Daraqutni reported it with a Da'if (weak) chain of narrators].
وَعَنْ اَلْمُغِيرَةِ بْنِ شُعْبَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ اِمْرَأَةُ اَلْمَفْقُودِ اِمْرَأَتُهُ حَتَّى يَأْتِيَهَا اَلْبَيَانُ.‏ } أَخْرَجَهُ اَلدَّارَقُطْنِيُّ بِإِسْنَادٍ ضَعِيفٍ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1118
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1118
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1129
Bulugh al-Maram 1119
Narrated Jabir (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "A man must not spend the night in the house of woman unless he is her husband or a Mahram." [Reported by Muslim].
وَعَنْ جَابِرٍ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ لَا يَبِيتَنَّ رَجُلٌ عِنْدَ اِمْرَأَةٍ, إِلَّا أَنْ يَكُونَ نَاكِحًا, أَوْ ذَا مَحْرَمٍ.‏ }
أَخْرَجَهُ مُسْلِمٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1119
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1119
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1130
Bulugh al-Maram 1120
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "A man must not be alone with a woman except in the presence of a Mahram." [al-Bukhari reported it].
وَعَنِ اِبْنِ عَبَّاسٍ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا, عَنْ اَلنَّبِيِّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ: { لَا يَخْلُوَنَّ رَجُلٌ بِاِمْرَأَةٍ, إِلَّا مَعَ ذِي مَحْرَمٍ.‏ } أَخْرَجَهُ اَلْبُخَارِيُّ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1120
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1120
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1131
Bulugh al-Maram 1121
Narrated Abu Sa'id (RA)" The Prophet (ﷺ) said in regard to the captives taken at Autas, "There must be no intercourse with a pregnant woman till she gives birth, or with one who is not pregnant till she has had one menstrual period." [Abu Dawud reported it, and al-Hakim graded it Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ فِي سَبَايَا أَوْطَاسٍ: { لَا تُوطَأُ حَامِلٌ حَتَّى تَضَعَ, وَلَا غَيْرُ ذَاتِ حَمْلٍ حَتَّى تَحِيضَ حَيْضَةً } أَخْرَجَهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ, وَصَحَّحَهُ اَلْحَاكِمُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1121
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1121
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1132
Bulugh al-Maram 1122
The aforesaid Hadith has a supporting narration from Ibn 'Abbas (RA) reported by ad-Daraqutni.
وَلَهُ شَاهِدٌ: عَنْ اِبْنِ عَبَّاسٍ فِي اَلدَّارَقُطْنِيِّ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1122
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1122
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1133
Bulugh al-Maram 1123
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "The child (born out of wedlock) belongs to the one on whose bed it is born, and stoning to death is for the fornicator." [Agreed upon, regarding Abu Hurairah's Hadith].
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- عَنْ اَلنَّبِيِّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ: { اَلْوَلَدُ لِلْفِرَاشِ, وَلِلْعَاهِرِ اَلْحَجَرُ.‏ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ مِنْ حَدِيثِهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1123
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1123
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1134
Bulugh al-Maram 1124
The aforesaid Hadith is also a part of 'Aishah's Hadith in the course of a story.
وَمِنْ حَدِيثِ عَائِشَةَ فِي قِصَّةٍ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1124
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1124
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1135
Bulugh al-Maram 1125
And from Ibn Mas'ud by an-Nasa'i.
وَعَنْ اِبْنِ مَسْعُودٍ, عِنْدَ النَّسَائِيِّ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1125
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1125
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1136
Bulugh al-Maram 1126
And from 'Uthman by Abu Dawud.
وَعَنْ عُثْمَانَ.‏ عِنْدَ أَبِي دَاوُدَ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1126
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1126
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1137
Bulugh al-Maram 1127
Narrated 'Aishah (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "One or two sucks do not make (marriage) unlawful." [Muslim reported it].
عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ لَا تُحَرِّمُ اَلْمَصَّةُ وَالْمَصَّتَانِ.‏ } أَخْرَجَهُ مُسْلِمٌ.‏ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1127
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1127
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1138
Bulugh al-Maram 1128
Narrated ['Aishah (RA)]:
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "Be sure (you women) who your brothers are, for suckling is that which is the result of hunger (i.e. when milk is the child's only food)." [Agreed upon].
وَعَنْهَا قَالَتْ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ اُنْظُرْنَ مَنْ إِخْوَانُكُنَّ, فَإِنَّمَا اَلرَّضَاعَةُ مِنْ اَلْمَجَاعَةِ.‏ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1128
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1128
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1139
Bulugh al-Maram 1129
Narrated ['Aishah (RA)]:
Sahlah (RA) daughter of Suhail (RA) came and said, "O Allah's Messenger, Salim the manumitted slave of Abu Hudhaifah lives with us in our house; and he has attained what men attain (i.e. puberty)." He said, "Suckle him so you would become unlawful to him (in marriage)." [Reported by Muslim].
وَعَنْهَا قَالَتْ: { جَاءَتْ سَهْلَةُ بِنْتُ سُهَيْلٍ.‏ فَقَالَتْ: يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ! إِنَّ سَالِمًا مَوْلَى أَبِي حُذَيْفَةَ مَعَنَا فِي بَيْتِنَا, وَقَدْ بَلَغَ مَا يَبْلُغُ اَلرِّجَالُ.‏ قَالَ: "أَرْضِعِيهِ.‏ تَحْرُمِي عَلَيْهِ".‏ } رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1129
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1129
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1140
Bulugh al-Maram 1130
Narrated ['Aishah (RA)]:
Aflah (her foster suckling uncle), brother of Abul-Qais, came and asked her permission to enter after the Hijab (was instituted for women). She said, "I refused to allow him in and when Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) came, I told him about what I had done, so he commanded me to give him permission to enter where I am and said, 'He is your paternal uncle.'" [Agreed upon].
وَعَنْهَا: { أَنْ أَفْلَحَ ‏-أَخَا أَبِي الْقُعَيْسِ‏- جَاءَ يَسْتَأْذِنُ عَلَيْهَا بَعْدَ اَلْحِجَابِ.‏ قَالَتْ: فَأَبَيْتُ أَنْ آذَنَ لَهُ, فَلَمَّا جَاءَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-أَخْبَرْتُهُ بِاَلَّذِي صَنَعْتُ, فَأَمَرَنِي أَنْ آذَنَ لَهُ عَلَيَّ.‏ وَقَالَ: "إِنَّهُ عَمُّكِ".‏ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ .‏ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1130
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1130
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1141
Bulugh al-Maram 1131
Narrated ['Aishah (RA)]:
In what was sent down in the Qur'an was 'ten known sucklings made marriage unlawful'. Afterwards, they were abrogated by 'five known ones.' Then, when Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) died these words were among what was recited in the Qur'an. [Reported by Muslim].
وَعَنْهَا قَالَتْ: { كَانَ فِيمَا أُنْزِلُ فِي اَلْقُرْآنِ: عَشْرُ رَضَعَاتٍ مَعْلُومَاتٍ يُحَرِّمْنَ, ثُمَّ نُسِخْنَ بِخَمْسٍ مَعْلُومَاتٍ, فَتُوُفِّيَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-وَهِيَ 1‏ فِيمَا يُقْرَأُ مِنَ اَلْقُرْآنِ } .‏ رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ 2‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1131
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1131
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1142
Bulugh al-Maram 1132
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) was offered to marry the daughter of Hamzah. He said, "She is unlawful to me for she is the daughter of my brother in suckling; and what is unlawful by reason of blood relationship is unlawful by reason of suckling relationship." [Agreed upon].
وَعَنِ اِبْنِ عَبَّاسٍ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا { أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-أُرِيدُ عَلَى اِبْنَةِ حَمْزَةَ.‏ فَقَالَ: "إِنَّهَا لَا تَحِلُّ لِي; إِنَّهَا اِبْنَةُ أَخِي مِنْ اَلرَّضَاعَةِ } 1‏ وَيَحْرُمُ مِنْ اَلرَّضَاعَةِ 2‏ مَا يَحْرُمُ مِنْ اَلنَّسَبِ.‏ مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ 3
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1132
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1132
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1143
Bulugh al-Maram 1133
Narrated Umm Salamah (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "The suckling that makes marriage unlawful is that which reaches the intestines (i.e. nourishes the child), and is taken before (two years) time of weaning." [Reported by at-Tirmidhi, he and al-Hakim graded it Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنْ أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ لَا يُحَرِّمُ مِنْ اَلرَّضَاعَةِ إِلَّا مَا فَتَقَ اَلْأَمْعَاءَ, وَكَانَ قَبْلَ اَلْفِطَامِ.‏ } رَوَاهُ اَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ, وَصَحَّحَهُ هُوَ وَالْحَاكِمُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1133
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1133
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1144
Bulugh al-Maram 1134
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas (RA):
Suckling applies only (to infants) during the first two years (of their life). [Reported by ad-Daraqutni and Ibn 'Adi as Marfu' (a saying of the Prophet) and Mawquf (a saying of a Companion). However, they both held that the stronger view is that it is Mawquf (i.e. saying if Ibn 'Abbas).
وَعَنِ اِبْنِ عَبَّاسٍ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا قَالَ: { لَا رَضَاعَ إِلَّا فِي اَلْحَوْلَيْنِ } رَوَاهُ اَلدَّارَقُطْنِيُّ وَابْنُ عَدِيٍّ مَرْفُوعًا وَمَوْقُوفًا, وَرَجَّحَا اَلْمَوْقُوفَ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1134
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1134
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1145
Bulugh al-Maram 1135
Narrated Ibn Mas'ud (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "The only suckling (to be considered) is that which gives life to the bones and causes flesh to grow." [Abu Dawud reported it].
وَعَنِ اِبْنِ مَسْعُودٍ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ لَا رَضَاعَ إِلَّا مَا أَنْشَزَ اَلْعَظْمَ, وَأَنْبَتَ اَللَّحْمَ.‏ } رَوَاهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1135
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1135
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1146
Bulugh al-Maram 1136
Narrated 'Uqbah bin al-Harith:
He married Umm Yahya, daughter of Abu Ihab, and a woman came and said, "I have suckled both of you." So he asked the Prophet (ﷺ) and he replied, "How (can you hesitate) while it has been said (that you are foster brothers and sisters)?" 'Uqbah therefore separated from her and she married another husband. [al-Bukhari reported it].
وَعَنْ عُقْبَةَ بْنِ اَلْحَارِثِ; { أَنَّهُ تَزَوَّجَ أُمَّ يَحْيَى بِنْتَ أَبِي إِهَابٍ, فَجَاءَتْ اِمْرَأَةٌ.‏ فَقَالَتْ: قَدْ أَرْضَعْتُكُمَا, فَسَأَلَ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-فَقَالَ: "كَيْفَ وَقَدْ قِيلَ? " فَفَارَقَهَا عُقْبَةُ.‏ وَنَكَحَتْ زَوْجًا غَيْرَهُ.‏ } أَخْرَجَهُ اَلْبُخَارِيُّ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1136
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1136
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1147
Bulugh al-Maram 1137
Narrated Ziyad as-Sahmi:
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) forbade that a stupid woman may be asked to suckle an infant. [Abu Dawud reported it. It is Mursal (missing link after the Tabi'i) and Ziyad is not a Sahabi].
وَعَنْ زِيَادِ اَلسَّهْمِيِّ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ: { نَهَى رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-أَنْ تُسْتَرْضَعَ اَلْحَمْقَى.‏ } أَخْرَجَهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ وَهُوَ مُرْسَلٌ, وَلَيْسَتْ لِزِيَادٍ صُحْبَةٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1137
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1137
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1148
Bulugh al-Maram 1138
Narrated 'Aishah (RA):
Hind daughter of 'Utbah - wife of Abu Sufyan - came to Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) and said, "O Allah's Messenger, Abu Sufyan is a miser who does not give me and my sons enough maintenance, except what I take from his wealth without his knowledge. Is there any blame on me for doing this?" He replied, "Take from his wealth what is reasonable and enough for you and your sons." [Agreed upon].
عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ: { دَخَلَتْ هِنْدُ بِنْتُ عُتْبَةَ ‏-اِمْرَأَةُ أَبِي سُفْيَانَ‏- عَلَى رَسُولِ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-.‏ فَقَالَتْ: يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ! إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ لَا يُعْطِينِي مِنْ اَلنَّفَقَةِ مَا يَكْفِينِي وَيَكْفِي بَنِيَّ, إِلَّا مَا أَخَذْتُ مِنْ مَالِهِ بِغَيْرِ عِلْمِهِ, فَهَلْ عَلَِيَّ فِي ذَلِكَ مِنْ جُنَاحٍ? فَقَالَ: "خُذِي مِنْ مَالِهِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ مَا يَكْفِيكِ, وَيَكْفِي بَنِيكِ".‏ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1138
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1138
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1149
Bulugh al-Maram 1139
Narrated Tariq al-Muharibi (RA):
We arrived at al-Madinah when Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) was standing on the Minbar addressing the people and saying, "The hand of the giver is the upper one, and spend first on those who are dependent on you: your mother and father, your sister and brother, then your relatives in order of their closeness to you." [Reported by an-Nasa'i. Ibn Hibban and ad-Daraqutni graded it Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنْ طَارِقِ الْمُحَارِبِيِّ قَالَ: { قَدِمْنَا اَلْمَدِينَةَ, فَإِذَا رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَائِمٌ يَخْطُبُ وَيَقُولُ: "يَدُ اَلْمُعْطِي اَلْعُلْيَا, وَابْدَأْ بِمَنْ تَعُولُ: أُمَّكَ وَأَبَاكَ, وَأُخْتَكَ وَأَخَاكَ, ثُمَّ أَدْنَاكَ أَدْنَاكَ".‏ } رَوَاهُ النَّسَائِيُّ, وَصَحَّحَهُ اِبْنُ حِبَّانَ, وَاَلدَّارَقُطْنِيُّ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1139
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1139
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1150
Bulugh al-Maram 1140
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "A slave is entitled to his food and clothing, and he should be burdened except with the work that he is capable of doing." [Reported by Muslim].
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ لِلْمَمْلُوكِ طَعَامُهُ وَكِسْوَتُهُ, وَلَا يُكَلَّفُ مِنْ اَلْعَمَلِ إِلَّا مَا يُطِيقُ.‏ } رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1140
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1140
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1151
Bulugh al-Maram 1141
Narrated Hakim bin Mu'awiyah al-Qushairi on his father's authority (RA):
I asked, "O Allah's Messenger, what is the right of the wife of one of us upon her husband?" He replied, "That you should give her food when you eat, and clothe her when you clothe yourself, and do not strike her on the face and do not revile her." [The narrator narrated the rest of the Hadith that has been mentioned in the chapter on the treatment of wives].
وَعَنْ حَكِيمِ بْنِ مُعَاوِيَةَ اَلْقُشَيْرِيِّ, عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ: { قُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ! مَا حَقُّ زَوْجَةِ أَحَدِنَا عَلَيْهِ? قَالَ: "أَنْ تُطْعِمَهَا إِذَا طَعِمْتَ, وَتَكْسُوَهَا إِذَا اِكْتَسَيْتَ, وَلَا تَضْرِبِ اَلْوَجْهَ, وَلَا تُقَبِّحْ…]".‏ } اَلْحَدِيثُ.‏ وتَقَدَّمَ فِي عِشْرَةِ اَلنِّسَاءِ.‏ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1141
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1141
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1152
Bulugh al-Maram 1142
Narrated Jabir (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) - in the Hadith of pilgrimage which is long - said in regard to women, "They (women) have rights over you (the men) to provide them with their sustenance and clothing in a reasonable manner." [Muslim reported it].
وَعَنْ جَابِر بْنِ عَبْدِ اَللَّهِ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- عَنْ اَلنَّبِيِّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-‏-فِي حَدِيثِ اَلْحَجِّ بِطُولِهِ‏- قَالَ فِي ذِكْرِ اَلنِّسَاءِ: { وَلَهُنَّ عَلَيْكُمْ رِزْقُهُنَّ وَكِسْوَتُهُنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ.‏ } أَخْرَجَهُ مُسْلِمٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1142
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1142
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1153
Bulugh al-Maram 1143
Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Umar (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "It is enough for a person to be considered sinful, that he neglects those whom he is responsible to sustain." [Reported by an-Nasa'i].
وَعَنْ عَبْدِ اَللَّهِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ كَفَى بِالْمَرْءِ إِثْمًا أَنْ يُضَيِّعَ مَنْ يَقُوتُ.‏ } رَوَاهُ النَّسَائِيُّ.‏ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1143
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1143
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1154
Bulugh al-Maram 1143
Muslim has this wording:
"...to withhold (food) from the one whose food he possesses."
وَهُوَ عِنْدَ مُسْلِمٍ بِلَفْظِ: "أَنْ يَحْبِسَ عَمَّنْ يَمْلِكُ قُوتَهُ" 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1143
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1143
Bulugh al-Maram 1144
Narrated Jabir (RA) in a Hadith which he attributed to the Prophet (ﷺ) regarding a pregnant (woman) whose husband died:
"She has no maintenance rights." [al-Baihaqi reported it. Its narrators are reliable, but al-Baihaqi said, "The correct narration is that which is Mawquf (a saying of a Companion)"].
وَعَنْ جَابِرٍ ‏-يَرْفَعُهُ, فِي اَلْحَامِلِ اَلْمُتَوَفَّى عَنْهَا‏- قَالَ: { لَا نَفَقَةَ لَهَا } أَخْرَجَهُ اَلْبَيْهَقِيُّ, وَرِجَالُهُ ثِقَاتٌ, لَكِنْ قَالَ: اَلْمَحْفُوظُ وَقْفُهُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1144
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1144
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1155
Bulugh al-Maram 1145
It was established that no maintenance is due (to a woman who was divorced with three pronouncements) in the Hadith of Fatimah (RA) daughter of Qais, which has preceded. [Reported by Muslim].
وَثَبَتَ نَفْيُ اَلنَّفَقَةِ فِي حَدِيثِ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتِ قَيْسٍ كَمَا تَقَدَّمَ.‏ رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1145
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1145
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1156
Bulugh al-Maram 1146
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "The upper hand is better than the lower one, and one of you should spend first on those he is responsible to provide for, lest a woman would say, 'Feed me or divorce me.'" [Reported by ad-Daraqutni, and its chain of narrators is Hasan (good)].
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ اَلْيَدِ اَلْعُلْيَا خَيْرٌ مِنْ اَلْيَدِ اَلسُّفْلَى, وَيَبْدَأُ أَحَدُكُمْ بِمَنْ يَعُولُ.‏ تَقُولُ اَلْمَرْأَةُ: أَطْعِمْنِي, أَوْ طَلِّقْنِي.‏ } رَوَاهُ اَلدَّارَقُطْنِيُّ, وَإِسْنَادُهُ حَسَنٌ 1
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1146
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1146
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1157
Bulugh al-Maram 1147
Narrated Sa'id bin al-Musaiyab regarding a man who finds nothing to spend on his wife:
"They are to be separated." Reported by Sa'id bin Mansur, from Sufyan, from Abu az-Zinad, from Sa'id bin al-Musaiyab. He said, "I asked Sa'id (bin al-Musaiyab), 'Is this Sunnah?' And he replied, 'Yes, it is Sunnah!'" [This Hadith is a strong Mursal (missing link after the Tabi'i].
وَعَنْ سَعِيدِ بْنِ اَلْمُسَيَّبِ ‏-فِي اَلرَّجُلِ لَا يَجِدُ مَا يُنْفِقُ عَلَى أَهْلِهِ‏- قَالَ: { يُفَرَّقُ بَيْنَهُمَا } .‏ أَخْرَجَهُ سَعِيدُ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ: عَنْ سُفْيَانَ, عَنْ أَبِي اَلزِّنَادِ, عَنْهُ.‏ قَالَ: { فَقُلْتُ لِسَعِيدِ بْنِ اَلْمُسَيَّبِ: سُنَّةٌ? فَقَالَ: سُنَّةٌ } .‏ وَهَذَا مُرْسَلٌ قَوِيَ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1147
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1147
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1158
Bulugh al-Maram 1148
Narrated 'Umar:
He wrote (letters) to the commanders of the armies regarding some men (soldiers) who have been absent from their wives, that they should impose upon them to spend on their wives or divorce them; and if they divorce them they should then send the maintenance which they have withheld. [ash-Shafi'i reported it, then al-Baihaqi with a Hasan (good) chain of narrators].
وَعَنْ عُمَرَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- { أَنَّهُ كَتَبَ إِلَى أُمَرَاءِ اَلْأَجْنَادِ فِي رِجَالٍ غَابُوا عَنْ نِسَائِهِمْ: أَنْ يَأْخُذُوهُمْ بِأَنَّ يُنْفِقُوا أَوْ يُطَلِّقُوا, فَإِنْ طَلَّقُوا بَعَثُوا بِنَفَقَةِ مَا حَبَسُوا } .‏ أَخْرَجَهُ اَلشَّافِعِيُّ.‏ ثُمَّ اَلْبَيْهَقِيّ بِإِسْنَادِ حَسَنٌ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1148
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1148
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1159
Bulugh al-Maram 1149
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA):
A man came to the Prophet (ﷺ) and said, "I have a Dinar." He said, "Spend it on yourself." He said, "I have another." He replied, "Spend it on your children." He said, "I have another." He replied, "Spend it on your wife." He said, "I have another." He replied, "Spend it on your servant." He said, "I have another." He replied, "You know best (what to do with it)." [ash-Shafi'i and Abu Dawud reported it, and the wording is Abu Dawud's. an-Nasa'i and al-Hakim reported it with the wife preceding the children].
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ: { جَاءَ رَجُلٌ إِلَى اَلنَّبِيِّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-فَقَالَ: يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ! عِنْدِي دِينَارٌ? قَالَ: "أَنْفِقْهُ عَلَى نَفْسِكَ".‏ قَالَ: عِنْدِي آخَرُ? قَالَ: "أَنْفِقْهُ عَلَى وَلَدِكَ".‏ قَالَ: عِنْدِي آخَرُ? قَالَ: "أَنْفِقْهُ عَلَى أَهْلِكَ".‏ قَالَ: عِنْدِي آخَرُ, قَالَ: "أَنْفِقُهُ عَلَى خَادِمِكَ".‏ قَالَ عِنْدِي آخَرُ, قَالَ: "أَنْتَ أَعْلَمَ".‏ } أَخْرَجَهُ اَلشَّافِعِيُّ وَاللَّفْظُ لَهُ, وَأَبُو دَاوُدَ, وَأَخْرَجَهُ النَّسَائِيُّ وَالْحَاكِمُ بِتَقْدِيمِ 1‏ .‏ اَلزَّوْجَةِ عَلَى اَلْوَلَدِ 2‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1149
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1149
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1160
Bulugh al-Maram 1150
Narrated Bahz bin Hakim on his father's authority from his grandfather (RA):
I asked, "O Allah's Messenger, to whom should I be kind and dutiful?" He replied, "Your mother." I asked, "Who comes next?" He replied, "Your mother." I asked, "Who comes next?" He replied, "Your mother." I asked, "Who comes next?" He replied, "Your father, then your relatives in order of nearness (of relationship)." [Abu Dawud and at-Tirmidhi reported it; the latter graded it Hasan (good)].
وَعَنْ بَهْزِ بْنِ حَكِيمٍ, عَنْ أَبِيهِ, عَنْ جَدِّهِ قَالَ: { قُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ! مَنْ أَبَرُّ? قَالَ: "أُمَّكَ".‏ قُلْتُ: ثُمَّ مِنْ? قَالَ: "أُمَّكَ".‏ قُلْتُ: ثُمَّ مِنْ "? قَالَ: "أُمَّكَ".‏ قُلْتُ: ثُمَّ مِنْ? قَالَ: "أَبَاكَ, ثُمَّ اَلْأَقْرَبَ فَالْأَقْرَبَ".‏ } أَخْرَجَهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ, وَاَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ وَحُسَّنَهُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1150
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1150
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1161
Bulugh al-Maram 1151
Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Amr (RA):
A woman said, "O Allah's Messenger, this son of mine: my womb was a receptacle for him, my breasts were a source of suckling for him, and my lap was a place for him to curl up in, yet his father has divorced me and wants to take him away from me." Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) replied to her, "You have more right to him as long as you do not remarry." [Reported by Ahmad and Abu Dawud. al-Hakim graded it Sahih (authentic)].
عَنْ عَبْدِ اَللَّهِ بْنِ عَمْرِوٍ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا; أَنَّ اِمْرَأَةً قَالَتْ: { يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ! إِنَّ اِبْنِي هَذَا كَانَ بَطْنِي لَهُ وِعَاءً, وَثَدْيِي لَهُ سِقَاءً, وَحِجْرِي لَهُ حِوَاءً, وَإِنَّ أَبَاهُ طَلَّقَنِي, وَأَرَادَ أَنْ يَنْتَزِعَهُ مِنِّي.‏ فَقَالَ لَهَا رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏- "أَنْتِ أَحَقُّ بِهِ, مَا لَمْ تَنْكِحِي".‏ } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ, وَأَبُو دَاوُدَ, وَصَحَّحَهُ اَلْحَاكِمُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1151
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1151
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1162
Bulugh al-Maram 1152
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA):
A woman said, "O Allah's Messenger, my husband wants to take away my son, while he has benefited me and provided me with drinking water from the well of Abu 'Inabah." Then her husband came and the Prophet (ﷺ) said: "Young man, this is your father and this is your mother, so take whoever of them you wish by the hand." He took his mother's hand and she went off with him. [Reported by Ahmad and al-Arba'a. at-Tirmidhi graded it Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- أَنَّ اِمْرَأَةً قَالَتْ: { يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ! إِنَّ زَوْجِي يُرِيدُ أَنْ يَذْهَبَ بِابْنِي, وَقَدْ نَفَعَنِي, وَسَقَانِي مِنْ بِئْرِ أَبِي عِنَبَةَ 1‏ فَجَاءَ زَوْجُهَا, فَقَالَ اَلنَّبِيُّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏- "يَا غُلَامُ! هَذَا أَبُوكَ وَهَذِهِ 2‏ أُمُّكَ, فَخُذْ بِيَدِ أَيُّهُمَا شِئْتَ" فَأَخَذَ بِيَدِ أُمِّهِ, فَانْطَلَقَتْ بِهِ.‏ } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ, وَالْأَرْبَعَةُ, وَصَحَّحَهُ اَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ 3
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1152
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1152
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1163
Bulugh al-Maram 1153
Narrated Rafi' bin Sinan (RA):
He accepted Islam but his wife refused to accept it. The Prophet (ﷺ) then made the mother sit down to a side and the father to another side and made the son sit down between them. He (the son) then inclined to his mother, so the Prophet (ﷺ) then said. "O Allah, give him guidance." Then he inclined to his father and he took him. [Abu Dawud and an-Nasa'i reported it. al-Hakim graded it Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنْ رَافِعِ بْنِ سِنَانٍ; { أَنَّهُ أَسْلَمَ, وَأَبَتِ اِمْرَأَتُهُ أَنْ تُسْلِمَ.‏ فَأَقْعَدَ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-اَلْأُمَّ نَاحِيَةً, وَالْأَبَ نَاحِيَةً, وَأَقْعَدَ اَلصَّبِيَّ بَيْنَهُمَا.‏ فَمَالَ إِلَى أُمِّهِ, فَقَالَ: "اَللَّهُمَّ اِهْدِهِ".‏ فَمَالَ إِلَى أَبِيهِ, فَأَخَذَهُ.‏ } أَخْرَجَهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ, وَالنَّسَائِيُّ, وَصححه الْحَاكِمُ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1153
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1153
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1164
Bulugh al-Maram 1154
Narrated al-Bara bin 'Azib (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) gave a ruling regarding Hamza's daughter in favor of her maternal aunt, saying, "The maternal aunt is in the position of the mother." [al-Bukhari reported it].
وَعَنْ اَلْبَرَاءِ بْنِ عَازِبِ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا; { أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَضَى فِي اِبْنَةِ حَمْزَةَ لِخَالَتِهَا, وَقَالَ: اَلْخَالَةُ بِمَنْزِلَةِ اَلْأُمِّ.‏ } أَخْرَجَهُ اَلْبُخَارِيُّ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1154
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1154
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1165
Bulugh al-Maram 1155
Ahmad reported it from the Hadith of 'Ali (RA), he said, "The little girl must be with her maternal aunt for the maternal aunt is (the same as) a mother."
وَأَخْرَجَهُ أَحْمَدُ: مِنْ حَدِيثِ عَلَيٍّ فَقَالَ: { وَالْجَارِيَةُ عِنْدَ خَالَتِهَا, فَإِنَّ اَلْخَالَةَ وَالِدَةٌ } 1
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1155
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1155
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1166
Bulugh al-Maram 1156
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "When one's servant serves him with his food, if he does not make him sit down with him (and eat) he should give him one or two morsels (of it)." [Agreed upon, and the wording is al-Bukhari's].
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ إِذَا أَتَى أَحَدَكُمْ خَادِمُهُ بِطَعَامِهِ, فَإِنْ لَمْ يُجْلِسْهُ مَعَهُ, فَلْيُنَاوِلْهُ لُقْمَةً أَوْ لُقْمَتَيْنِ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ, وَاللَّفْظُ لِلْبُخَارِيِّ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1156
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1156
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1167
Bulugh al-Maram 1157
Narrated Ibn 'Umar (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "A woman was punished on account of a cat which she held captive till it died. Hence, she entered the Hell-Fire due to (her mistreatment of) the cat. She did not feed it or give it water while she held it captive, nor did she let it out so that it may eat the things that creep on the earth." [Agreed upon].
وَعَنْ اِبْنِ عُمَرَ رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا; عَنْ اَلنَّبِيِّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ: { عُذِّبَتْ اِمْرَأَةٌ فِي هِرَّةٍ سَجَنَتْهَا حَتَّى مَاتَتْ, فَدَخَلْتِ اَلنَّارَ فِيهَا, لَا هِيَ أَطْعَمَتْهَا وَسَقَتْهَا إِذْ هِيَ حَبَسَتْهَا, وَلَا هِيَ تَرَكَتْهَا, تَأْكُلُ مِنْ خَشَاشِ اَلْأَرْضِ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ 1‏ .‏
Reference : Bulugh al-Maram 1157
In-book reference : Book 8, Hadith 1157
English translation : Book 8, Hadith 1168
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