كتاب الفضول والجفاء
56
Meddling and Harshness
Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1305
Ibn Abi'l-Hudhayl said, "Messenger of Allah visited a man with
one of his companions. When he entered the house, his companion began to
look around. 'Abdullah told him, 'By Allah, it would have been better for
you if your eyes had been gouged out."
حَدَّثَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ عَيَّاشٍ، عَنِ الأَجْلَحِ، عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي الْهُذَيْلِ قَالَ: عَادَ عَبْدُ اللهِ رَجُلاً، وَمَعَهُ رَجُلٌ مِنْ أَصْحَابِهِ، فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ الدَّارَ جَعَلَ صَاحِبُهُ يَنْظُرُ، فَقَالَ لَهُ عَبْدُ اللهِ: وَاللَّهِ لَوْ تَفَقَّأَتْ عَيْنَاكَ كَانَ خَيْرًا لَكَ.
| Reference | : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1305 |
| In-book reference | : Book 56, Hadith 1305 |
| English translation | : Book 56, Hadith 1305 |
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Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1306
Nafi' reported that a group of the people of Iraq visited Ibn
'Umar. They saw a gold crown on one of their servants and looked at one
another. He remarked, "How quick you are to see evil!"
حَدَّثَنَا خَلاَّدٌ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْعَزِيزِ، عَنْ نَافِعٍ، أَنَّ نَفَرًا مِنْ أَهْلِ الْعِرَاقِ دَخَلُوا عَلَى ابْنِ عُمَرَ، فَرَأَوْا عَلَى خَادِمٍ لَهُمْ طَوْقًا مِنْ ذَهَبٍ، فَنَظَرَ بَعْضُهُمْ إِلَى بَعْضٍ، فَقَالَ: مَا أَفْطَنَكُمْ لِلشَّرِّ.
| Reference | : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1306 |
| In-book reference | : Book 56, Hadith 1306 |
| English translation | : Book 56, Hadith 1306 |
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Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1307
Abu Hurayra said, "There is no good in excess words."
حَدَّثَنَا مُسَدَّدٌ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا مُعْتَمِرٌ، عَنْ لَيْثٍ، عَنْ عَطَاءٍ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ: لاَ خَيْرَ فِي فُضُولِ الْكَلامِ.
| Reference | : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1307 |
| In-book reference | : Book 56, Hadith 1307 |
| English translation | : Book 56, Hadith 1307 |
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Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1308
Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and
grant him peace, said, "The worst of my community are those who speak a
lot, those who are diffuse in speech and those who fill their mouth with
words. The best of my community are the best of them in character."
حَدَّثَنَا مَطَرٌ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا يَزِيدُ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا الْبَرَاءُ بْنُ يَزِيدَ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ شَقِيقٍ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ: شِرَارُ أُمَّتِي الثَّرْثَارُونَ، الْمُشَّدِّقُونَ، الْمُتَفَيْهِقُونَ، وَخِيَارُ أُمَّتِي أَحَاسِنُهُمْ أَخْلاقًا.
| Reference | : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1308 |
| In-book reference | : Book 56, Hadith 1308 |
| English translation | : Book 56, Hadith 1308 |
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Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1309
Abu Hurayra reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless
him and grant him peace, said, "The worst person is someone who is two-faced.
He is the person who comes to one group of people with one face and another
group of people with another face."
حَدَّثَنَا إِسْمَاعِيلُ قَالَ: حَدَّثَنِي مَالِكٌ، عَنْ أَبِي الزِّنَادِ، عَنِ الأَعْرَجِ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ: مِنْ شَرِّ النَّاسِ ذُو الْوَجْهَيْنِ، الَّذِي يَأْتِي هَؤُلاَءِ بِوَجْهٍ، وَهَؤُلاَءِ بِوَجْهٍ.
| Reference | : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1309 |
| In-book reference | : Book 56, Hadith 1309 |
| English translation | : Book 56, Hadith 1309 |
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Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1310
'Ammar ibn Yasir said, "I heard the Prophet, may Allah bless him
and grant him peace, say, "The person who has two faces in this world will
have two tongues of the Fire on the Day of Rising.' He passed by a stout
man and said, 'This is one of them.'"
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ الأَصْبَهَانِيُّ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا شَرِيكٌ، عَنْ رُكَيْنٍ، عَنْ نُعَيْمِ بْنِ حَنْظَلَةَ، عَنْ عَمَّارِ بْنِ يَاسِرٍ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَقُولُ: مَنْ كَانَ ذَا وَجْهَيْنِ فِي الدُّنْيَا، كَانَ لَهُ لِسَانَانِ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ مِنْ نَارٍ، فَمَرَّ رَجُلٌ كَانَ ضَخْمًا، قَالَ: هَذَا مِنْهُمْ.
| Reference | : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1310 |
| In-book reference | : Book 56, Hadith 1310 |
| English translation | : Book 56, Hadith 1310 |
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Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1311
'Urwa ibn az-Zubayr heard 'A'isha say, "A man asked permission
to visit the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and the
Prophet said, 'Give him permission. He is an evil brother of his tribe.'
When he entered he spoke kindly to him. I said, 'Messenger of Allah, you
said what you said and then you spoke kindly to him.' He replied, 'Yes,
'A'isha. The worst of people is the one people avoid due to his harsh nature.'"
حَدَّثَنَا صَدَقَةُ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ ابْنَ الْمُنْكَدِرِ قَالَ: سَمِعَ عُرْوَةَ بْنَ الزُّبَيْرِ أَنَّ عَائِشَةَ أَخْبَرَتْهُ: اسْتَأْذَنَ رَجُلٌ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَقَالَ: ائْذَنُوا لَهُ، بِئْسَ أَخُو الْعَشِيرَةِ، فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ أَلاَنَ لَهُ الْكَلاَمَ، فَقُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، قُلْتَ الَّذِي قُلْتَ، ثُمَّ أَلَنْتَ الْكَلاَمَ، قَالَ: أَيْ عَائِشَةُ، إِنَّ شَرَّ النَّاسِ مَنْ تَرَكَهُ النَّاسُ، أَوْ وَدَعَهُ النَّاسُ، اتِّقَاءَ فُحْشِهِ.
| Reference | : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1311 |
| In-book reference | : Book 56, Hadith 1311 |
| English translation | : Book 56, Hadith 1311 |
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Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1312
'Imran ibn Husayn said, "The Prophet, may Allah bless him and
grant him peace, said, "Modesty brings nothing but good." Bashir ibn Ka'b
said, "It is written in books of wisdom, 'From modesty comes dignity. From
modesty comes tranquillity.''" 'Imran said, "I relate to you from the Messenger
of Allah and you then relate to me from some book?!"
حَدَّثَنَا آدَمُ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ، عَنْ قَتَادَةَ، عَنْ أَبِي السَّوَّارِ الْعَدَوِيِّ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ عِمْرَانَ بْنَ حُصَيْنٍ قَالَ: قَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم: الْحَيَاءُ لاَ يَأْتِي إِلاَّ بِخَيْرٍ، فَقَالَ بُشَيْرُ بْنُ كَعْبٍ: مَكْتُوبٌ فِي الْحِكْمَةِ: إِنَّ مِنَ الْحَيَاءِ وَقَارًا، إِنَّ مِنَ الْحَيَاءِ سَكِينَةً، فَقَالَ لَهُ عِمْرَانُ: أُحَدِّثُكَ عَنْ رَسُولِ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم وَتُحَدِّثُنِي عَنْ صَحِيفَتِكَ.
| Reference | : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1312 |
| In-book reference | : Book 56, Hadith 1312 |
| English translation | : Book 56, Hadith 1312 |
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Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1313
Ibn 'Umar said, "Modesty and belief are together. If one of them
is removed, the other is removed."
حَدَّثَنَا بِشْرُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا جَرِيرُ بْنُ حَازِمٍ، عَنْ يَعْلَى بْنِ حَكِيمٍ، عَنْ سَعِيدِ بْنِ جُبَيْرٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ قَالَ: إِنَّ الْحَيَاءَ وَالإِيمَانَ قُرِنَا جَمِيعًا، فَإِذَا رُفِعَ أَحَدُهُمَا رُفِعَ الآخَرُ.
| Reference | : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1313 |
| In-book reference | : Book 56, Hadith 1313 |
| English translation | : Book 56, Hadith 1313 |
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Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1314
Abu Bakra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant
him peace, said, "Modesty is part of belief. Belief is in the Garden. Foul
language is part of coarseness and coarseness is in the Fire."
حَدَّثَنَا سَعِيدُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا هُشَيْمٌ، عَنْ مَنْصُورٍ، عَنِ الْحَسَنِ، عَنْ أَبِي بَكْرَةَ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ: الْحَيَاءُ مِنَ الإِيمَانِ، وَالإِيمَانُ فِي الْجَنَّةِ، وَالْبَذَاءُ مِنَ الْجَفَاءِ، وَالْجَفَاءُ فِي النَّارِ.
| Reference | : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1314 |
| In-book reference | : Book 56, Hadith 1314 |
| English translation | : Book 56, Hadith 1314 |
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Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1315
Muhammad ibn al-Hanafiyya said, "The Prophet, may Allah bless
him and grant him peace, had a large head and large eyes. When he walked,
he bent forward as if he was walking up a hill. When he turned around,
he turned completely."
حَدَّثَنَا مُوسَى بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادٌ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَقِيلٍ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَلِيٍّ ابْنِ الْحَنَفِيَّةِ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ: كَانَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم ضَخْمَ الرَّأْسِ، عَظِيمَ الْعَيْنَيْنِ، إِذَا مَشَى تَكَفَّأَ، كَأَنَّمَا يَمْشِي فِي صَعَدٍ، إِذَا الْتَفَتَ الْتَفَتَ جَمِيعًا.
| Reference | : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1315 |
| In-book reference | : Book 56, Hadith 1315 |
| English translation | : Book 56, Hadith 1315 |
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Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1316
Abu Mas'ud said, "The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace, said, "Part of what people know of the words of first prophethood
is that if someone does not possess shyness, then he will do as he pleases."
حَدَّثَنَا آدَمُ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ، عَنْ مَنْصُورٍ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ رِبْعِيَّ بْنَ حِرَاشٍ يُحَدِّثُ، عَنْ أَبِي مَسْعُودٍ قَالَ: قَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم: إِنَّ مِمَّا أَدْرَكَ النَّاسَ مِنْ كَلاَمِ النُّبُوَّةِ الأُولَى: إِذَا لَمْ تَسْتَحْيِ فَاصْنَعْ مَا شِئْتَ.
| Reference | : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1316 |
| In-book reference | : Book 56, Hadith 1316 |
| English translation | : Book 56, Hadith 1316 |
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